MY HEIGHT

The reason you have a fat girlfriend and face frequent social floundering is not because you are short, but rather because you are being a bitch about being short. Learn to love being short. At least you are different. lus, if you can convincingly maintain the idea that being short is awesome, you will find others around you will follow suit.

However, if you can't, you will continue to suck.

Would your girlfriend like it if she knew you were calling her fat? I doubt it. I don't think you would like to learn that she was calling you shortie behind your back. You say you like the fact that she is soft and you like heavier women, so why call her fat?

I agree with the above poster, you have to feel good about yourself, no matter your weight or height. Believe me I need to learn how to do that myself. Just wanted to let you know that your GF probably would not appreciate you calling her fat. That is a very derogatory term. If you care about her, I would not do it if I were you. Just my thoughts on the subject.

KK

KK wrote:Would your girlfriend like it if she knew you were calling her fat? I doubt it. I don't think you would like to learn that she was calling you shortie behind your back. You say you like the fact that she is soft and you like heavier women, so why call her fat?

I agree with the above poster, you have to feel good about yourself, no matter your weight or height. Believe me I need to learn how to do that myself. Just wanted to let you know that your GF probably would not appreciate you calling her fat. That is a very derogatory term. If you care about her, I would not do it if I were you. Just my thoughts on the subject.

KK

because she is fat? maybe he doesn't think of it as such a derogatory term as you do.

Yes, I think fat is a deragatory term. The medical term is obese. Of course none of it sounds good to me. Even anorexic has negative connotations. I bet if you took a poll especially of women, most would call FAT a negative term.

(hate political correctness)

Bobalobugle, you wrote..

Yes, perhaps you do think that way.. but.. BUT... perhaps, HE, doesn't. God how I hate political correctness... I wish you emotional types wouldn't project your own misguided ideas of morality onto everyone else. He didn't seem to be using the term derogatorily, you should pay more attention to context perhaps instead of getting other people to follow all kinds of strange rules.

Calling a woman fat is far from a PC issue, that has been a problem for women for ages. No woman is going to love ya for calling her that. I would love to have somone bet some money on that with me. I need some bad. Being demeaning to someone is I guess a moral issue, but you sure won't win friends or influence people doing it. Maybe you should "look outside the box" that you are in.

KK

PSELLISMOPHILIA....

So glad that your Gf and you can laugh and call each other fat and shortie. And it is true, short men can be just as fine as anyone. Look at Danny DeVito, he has been known as a SEX symbol. So has Queen Latifah for that matter. So when your self esteem is intact, none of that matters. It is just superficial. Take care and best of luck to you both!!

KK

What I mean is that a person can say that someone else is fat without being malicious about it... it's all about how someone says something, not what they say.... and why do you mention women? why not just people in general? are you a woman? perhaps a self-righteous one?