Help! Self-Esteem

Hmm how to start this..?

First I hope its in the right area, if not maybe a mod can move it.

Im going to be completely honest, because its hard to lie to myself and others..Im Bipolar Manic-Depressive, I also suffer from premature ejaculation issues. To go with that, my childhood was unstable with an abusive mother, mainly emotional. In my opinion, i have little self-esteem. As far as women, i always approach them with an "im the $#%^" sort of attitude. I know that if they actually gave me the time of day, i wouldnt be able to satisfy them in the least. What can i do? Im always on google, searching for the latest self-esteem tips..but they never seem to work. Am i just lying to myself?? Plz help

Get others involved: tell your friends and relatives what you are going through and enlist their advice and support. Perhaps they have similar problems too, in which case you might be able to band up and form a support group.

I have found that some things that help are: 1) giving to or helping others; 2) drawing close to those who have a positive influence on me; 3) not comparing myself to others; 4) forgiving myself for mistakes that I have made (therefore, I try not to do deliberate wrong acts); and 5) seeing my true value...