Its impossible to generalize things like that, every person has a different personality and can get relief in different ways. A primary source of relief can by anything that he can constantly feed himself with.
But you probably mean a source that is limitless and gives the most relief, a source you can use for life and never gets old?
anagram wrote:Avoidant: acknowledgement
I am not sure what exactly is the cause of the problems that avoidants have. I read in the forums, that even if someone likes them, the avoidance person will think he/she himself/herself is not wordy of such affection. They need to find acknowledgement, but from within, not from the outside.
anagram wrote:Borderline: affection
You can add suicide as a form of relief. I can't understand borderline people.
anagram wrote:Obssv-compsv: control
More like self-control. AsPD like control too.
anagram wrote:Schizotypal: entertainment
Isn't this true for everyone? Who doesn't like entertainment? As for a primary source, i have never found it good enough myself, seems to have a limit.
My primary source of relief is knowledge.