What do you do when someone actually is out to get you?

So here's the story: My ex boyfriend and I have a child together. For up until recently when I quit my job, he had her half the time so I didn't ask for Child Support. Now, I don't work, and he only sees her a couple days a week, and when I filed for Medicare they told me I have to file for Child Support, so I did.

Well, now, he's really mad at me, and he's trying to get full custody of my daughter. I'm not being delusional, I am 100% sure that he's out to get me. I heard him talking about it, saying that it's been his "master plan for six years" and "if you give her enough rope she'll hang herself" and stuff like that.

Well, he took her to the doctors to get an ear infection looked at. They put her on antibiotics. It was supoosed to last her until Sunday, but we ran out Saturday morning. Anyways, I told this to her grandmother who was picking her up for the day, and she said she'd just have to tell her father. So, now, he's going to say that I don't give my child medication.

I know he's been keeping track of me. I know he's trying to use my disorder against me to get full custody....The only problem being is that I am a good mom, and I take care of my kids. So he can just try all he wants to take her from me, I'm not worried. He'd have to prove me an unfit mother before he could take my daughter away, and he's not going to be able to do it.

But what do I do about him watching everything I do? What do I do about him keeping track of everything I do wrong. I know he wants to call Child Protective Serivices about me, but he can't find anything concrete to get me into trouble.

So, I really do have someone out to get me. I do have someone watching me. But the thing is, I'm going to win this because I am a good parent. So I guess he can play his little games all he wants.

In this situation all you can do is give him no excuse whatsoever to report you. Be the best parent to your child that you can possibly be. Also, regardless of his attitude towards you, always keep a pleasant disposition so that you are always coming across as rational and reasonable. Don't take the bait if he starts an argument and ignore any hurtful or malicious comments he might make,

its hard, but it does work people can only be nasty for so long when the other person isn't cooperating.

this must be really hard for you and plays into the paranoid delusions you do have as part of your illness,

good luck
Jools