accusations / honesty ...

slugger, thanks for your input. it's certainly helped me think more clearly about this situation.

TDT, i'd be grateful if you'd move this thread to the schizophrenia forum to see if anyone has any input there. thanks.

this relationship looks like it's well and truly over. i've no idea whether her scizophrenia had anything to do with this. but if i'm to believe what she told me, she never actually felt anything for me at all. i guess that's one of the perils of being mildly autistic. i'd absolutely never have guessed if she hadn't pointedly told me so.