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Re: Are you able to apologize?

Postby mitfy » Tue Jul 12, 2016 1:22 am

probably not.
i guess it depends who it is.
i'll likely turned out annoyed that they're offended, or if they respond with something like "well gee sorry" that just makes me irritated/frustrated.

like others have said, i suppose it depends on my mood. sometimes i have more patience than other times, and when i have more patience i'm more likely to apologize.
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Re: Are you able to apologize?

Postby fdarkmatter » Thu Jan 12, 2017 4:57 pm

i tend to apologize a little bit too much. because i'm very self-conscious and i'm considerate of other people's feelings. but sometimes, i do so to keep myself out of trouble. it depends..
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Re: Are you able to apologize?

Postby UK SPD » Wed Jan 18, 2017 10:51 am

I'm one of life's sorry-sayers - sometimes annoying to those who aren't.
If you push me over I'll say sorry for being in your way.
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Re: Are you able to apologize?

Postby GuyVinces » Wed Jan 18, 2017 12:00 pm

salamander wrote:If you happen to hurt somebody, for example by being rude in order to get some distance, are you willing/able to go and say "I am sorry" if you realize you have hurt that person's feelings?

No.
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Re: Are you able to apologize?

Postby cataatta » Wed Jan 18, 2017 6:12 pm

Reluctantly. But yeah, sometimes i say 'I'm sorry'. I rarely am, though.


I don't really see the point of apologies. It changes nothing.
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Re: Are you able to apologize?

Postby Chan » Sat Jan 21, 2017 2:01 pm

Generally? No. I say what I mean and mean what I say. I'm not responsible for other people's inferences and silly emotional responses to those inferences.
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Howard Roark: But I don't think of you.

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