Passive -Aggressive test

Oblivion wrote:Sex is, I think, a passive-aggressive activity. As for masturbation, that first e should be a u, which makes no sense because there's no u in masturbation.

Oddly, I don't consider dominance and submission to be passive-aggressive.
Holding out on sex would be passive-aggressive
- and from observing your general attitude towards sex, I doubt that's what you meant.
As would any other way of withholding affection to punish

I was thinking more along the lines of when people indirectly try to bully others, talking around someone insultingly rather than directly to them, posting and saying things around people that they hope may upset or trigger them (as well as attempting to set boundaries by acting the same way), reading other's posts through threads in other subforums (which is fine) but then covertly trying to peppering it into other places, teaming up against people, gas lighting, any other indirect method of attempting to be aggressive or intimidating, saying they have a disorder that they think someone else who frustrates them does, making up different user accounts and using them at the same time as two (or multiple) different characters, etc.

What's unfortunate, is when people do it enough to others, they think everyone else is doing it to them even when others are just being honest.

As for when I said learning this skill despite myself, there's no point in directly addressing this type of skill with any of the PDs that use this as their primary language on this website, so you end up getting sucked in and doing the same - and then also going around misinterpreting.

"Despite"?
or "In spite of"?

I don't mind my strange ways of ordering sentences and adding dashes, but I could use a lesson on commas - they're killing me.

DaturaInnoxia wrote:For communication skills, I lost my $#%^ on an ignorant twat in a discussion group on another platform, and I did ok at getting under her skin for quite a while and "winning"

Then later I realized I was being a complete ######6 p.o.s. @@@@@@@ - and I felt necessary (12 Steps) to acknowledge my behavior and that it was wrong and what I should have done instead.
I like that I can do that though; it makes me feel accomplished (once it's over).

My conversation here still hasn't ended.
It's irritating, yet comical as ###$.

She told me she used to have problems like me as well - and that she could offer some advice. She offered to find me the name of the breathing app she found useful.
^
I'd like to get defensive and add that it wasn't entirely my fault, but I'm clearing "my end of the street," so I'm not supposed to say that.
I want to find a kind way to decline and end the conversation, but I don't know how.

DaturaInnoxia wrote:I find passive-aggression difficult to masterbate to.
Difficult, but not impossible.

Passive-Aggression is definitely one of the primary love languages for the personality disordered on psychforums.

I arrived almost completely out of habit, and although my skills at being passive-aggressive are still weak, I'm gaining them seemingly despite myself (not that I'm claiming I came with adept communication skills).

I'm not sure I wanted to start redeveloping this particular subset of skills, but it's certainly an easy way out when it comes to communicating.
That can be nice, I think?
Doing things the "adult" way can be incredibly uncomfortable.

To tangent (as I always take pleasure in doing):

For communication skills, I lost my $#%^ on an ignorant twat in a discussion group on another platform, and I did ok at getting under her skin for quite a while and "winning"

Then later I realized I was being a complete ######6 p.o.s. @@@@@@@ - and I felt necessary (12 Steps) to acknowledge my behavior and that it was wrong and what I should have done instead.
I like that I can do that though; it makes me feel accomplished (once it's over).

With most people here, I almost never feel the need to try to amend my words when I end up acting out because it's already been done to me - which is also nice as an outlet, I guess.

-- Tue May 12, 2020 11:55 pm --

Also, the filter for the c word it definitely the prettiest of them all!

You have good points there.
Often with stupid quizzes I re-design the questionnaire and formulate questions I feel are more relevant.

Apart from having a question on sarcasm I think another question should have been one that explores how provocative one is especially regarding tone and body language.

I think we are all gaining skills on Passive aggressive behavior because 'political correctness' is so over the top now.

Hadn't noticed that the word @@@@@@@ does have the prettiest filter. Viewing it in this way has reduced my irritation at the filter

salles wrote:... 'political correctness' is so over the top now.

I think political correctness is going to blow up pretty badly especially around things like extremist feminism.
When I watch discussions (elsewhere), men and women's levels of hostility and blame towards each other are increasing exponentially.
Anyways, I told myself that I'm not allowed to start up with my rantings on this topic again, lol.

https://i.imgur.com/Pe8xfgv.png
got a 42.

18 for me. It says I have mild Passive-Aggressive traits and should seek help. ..... sorry but I don't have enough care for that.

Meh. I managed 30. Interesting.

22 but my answers could change the next day even. That and some of these questions are not relevant to those who don't participate in society.