Keeping Busy

Too many bad memories. Replaying in my mind, some hypothetical about the future. Several involve me being harassed about why I don't want kids. The "person" asks a near infinite amount of questions about it. Some involve dating shallow individuals in the future who only care about looks and rolling around in the hay. Totally shallow and sex addicted. That happens a lot you know. There are people who don't care *what* you say on dates *at all,* so long as you look "hot." WTF?

So I have to keep busy. I think lifestyle minimalism makes you look too below average, lazy, and is too unrealistic. Life is not a Vipassana retreat.

Stop caring about what other people think. No one's opinion matters. Just do whatever makes you happiest.

I've found that the best solution to interpersonal difficulties is to cut off all relationships completely. I haven't been able to do that with family unfortunately, but my life has been a hundred times better since I stopped interacting with friends and acquaintances who aren't related to me.