How to function better in day to day life.

Well she is technically talking to me, its just limited to coaching advice and nothing beyond that, whereas before we could talk about lots of random things like she would with normal people, and i kind of liked that.

I have started going to more group sessions and stuff, which I think might be making a small bit of a difference. But I still dont know what I did wrong in the first place, so I dont know what to say in order to fix it. Doubt it would be a good idea to ask directly what i did? haha

doogle wrote:I have started going to more group sessions and stuff, which I think might be making a small bit of a difference. But I still dont know what I did wrong in the first place, so I dont know what to say in order to fix it.

Again, I can't answer definitively because I don't know all the specifics of the situation. But I don't think you've done anything wrong. If I understand this situation correctly, it's more of a misunderstanding on her part than anything else.

Doubt it would be a good idea to ask directly what i did?

Why not? Or maybe simply ask what is wrong. Also, take some time out and look at the situation objectively. You may be blowing things out of proportion. If you are contributing to the squad as well as everybody else and not causing problems (which it doesn't sound like you are), aside from needing to train alone (as opposed to WANTING to train alone) then things might just straighten themselves out on their own with a little bit of time. It's your choice.

I've been racking my brain and I cant think of anything that I said that was actually bad, so I think I agree with your guess that it was a misunderstanding on her part, or a bad reaction to something I said that I find normal. Either way I dont think I can change it.

I never cause any problems for anyone, just the usual stuff like people not liking me training myself etc. So I think I will go for the "things might just straighten themselves out on their own with a little bit of time" option.

I might have portrayed it that I like to train alone, not that I NEED to, so I might try clarify that at some point. Thank you so much naps, you've really helped me out over the last few days, I really needed it and appreciate it

How to function better in day to day life? Well...as schizoids, we're already pretty detached from day to day life to begin with. Maybe further detaching yourself from day to day life would be good? Maybe taking things that happen in day to day life with a grain of salt might help for some of those who are, by default, coming from a more negative point of view on day to day life.

doogle wrote:I might have portrayed it that I like to train alone, not that I NEED to, so I might try clarify that at some point.

Just be careful about asserting your NEED to train alone so that it doesn't sound like you think you're privileged or something. Al long as your performance within the squad remains optimal, no one should question the fact that you train alone.