Runestone wrote:Correct me if im wrong, but taoism contain three "schools", namely; the Philosophy, the ritual (shamanic) and the religious
Yes you can look at Taoism as a philosophy or a religion & there is more ritualized/magical tradition in it as well. But most Eastern religions can be viewed that way.
Runestone wrote:Im no expert in either movements, but taoism appeal more to me than buddhism. The taoist philosophy, that is.
Yes there is a lot to appreciate about Taoism as a philosophy. I think it would appeal to a lot of people with SPD because of it's focus on noninvolvement. Lao Tzu is fascinating but cryptic & paradoxical, but Chuang Tzu's stories are among my favorite books. His is the philosophy of someone who just wants to be left alone. He's skeptical of the value of all the things that most people hold up as valuable & he's got a good sense of humor. A quote from him "What ordinary people do and what they find happiness in -- I don't know whether such happiness is in the end really happiness or not. I look at what ordinary people find happiness in, what they all make a mad dash for, racing around as though they couldn't stop - they all say they're happy with it. I'm not happy with it and I'm not unhappy with it. In the end is there really happiness or isn't there?"
To return to the question of the Taoism and loss of self. The focus of Taoist philosophy is contemplation of the Tao, which unlike a person is described as a block of wood. As Chuang Tzu says (from a different translation) "Among them all, man alone is more than an object. Though, like objects, he has form and semblance, He is not limited to form. He is more. He can attain to formlessness."
Most mystical traditions, regardless of the religious trappings involved, have some common elements. They even use the same kinds of metaphors to describe the mystical/religious experience. And while I don't consider myself a believer in any religion, I do believe that there are transformative experiences or altered states of consciousness that can change a person for the better.