DaturaInnoxia wrote:I'm not interested in feedback.
justonemoreperson wrote:Then why put it on here?
justonemoreperson wrote:Feedback: just rhetorical, do not read:
You've formed an attachment to this person because you know that it's not likely to last long, so it's a safe relationship to have. This is a toxic relationship for you both.
DaturaInnoxia wrote:
I had too high of expectations of her and when she failed to meet them, I cut her out of my life.
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I've felt regret over that because she was doing the best she could and I realized they were to high.
justonemoreperson wrote:DaturaInnoxia wrote:
I had too high of expectations of her and when she failed to meet them, I cut her out of my life
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I've felt regret over that because she was doing the best she could and I realized they were to high.
This seems to be the crux of the issue. Your high expectations were a surrogate for your own.
You projected your own feelings of worth onto her, and her success or failure then became personal to you.
you need a more stable friend.
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