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Re: Do you like kissing/hugging/non-sexual romantic contact?

Postby cobra cat » Tue Jun 04, 2013 11:59 pm

smirks wrote:
katana wrote:
smirks wrote:Pecks on the cheek from family members


eww.


I know. The stepfam is Italian so I have to suffer twice.


I'm sorry to hear that
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Re: Do you like kissing/hugging/non-sexual romantic contact?

Postby Demigodz » Wed Jun 05, 2013 12:09 am

If it involves someone being within 5 feet of me no.
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Re: Do you like kissing/hugging/non-sexual romantic contact?

Postby roscid » Wed Jun 05, 2013 4:04 am

I like hugs.

I've never really kissed anyone, but I can't imagine enjoying it. Seems like it would be awkward.

Hands on the shoulder, belly, back, etc are nice. I like being touched. Massages are doubleplus good.

I can tolerate tickling for a few seconds but I hate it when people take it too far.

I think I would like touching other people in a sort of experimental/exploratory kind of way, although not many people are willing to let strangers do that to them (understandably so).

Yeah. 8)
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Re: Do you like kissing/hugging/non-sexual romantic contact?

Postby Rob_Roid » Wed Jun 05, 2013 8:08 am

smirks wrote:
katana wrote:
smirks wrote:Pecks on the cheek from family members


eww.


I know. The stepfam is Italian so I have to suffer twice.


I hear ya Smirks. My whole family is Italian. That double cheek peck obligation is brutal. :)
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Re: Do you like kissing/hugging/non-sexual romantic contact?

Postby michiru7422 » Wed Jun 05, 2013 7:17 pm

NO.

It's very awkward to avoid sometimes though. And have you ever seen the look on people's face when you tell them you don't like hugs?
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Re: Do you like kissing/hugging/non-sexual romantic contact?

Postby archigallus » Wed Jun 05, 2013 8:26 pm

I'm not into casual touching.

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Re: Do you like kissing/hugging/non-sexual romantic contact?

Postby Demigodz » Wed Jun 05, 2013 11:08 pm

michiru7422 wrote:NO.

It's very awkward to avoid sometimes though. And have you ever seen the look on people's face when you tell them you don't like hugs?

For some reason they take it personal I think
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Re: Do you like kissing/hugging/non-sexual romantic contact?

Postby Solitary Recluse » Fri Jun 07, 2013 3:15 pm

I despise hugging, and any other form of physical contact to be honest. I don't mind hand shakes, and I wouldn't know about kissing. I have kissed one girl, but I was extremely drunk and can barely remember it. All I can remember is her saying that I bit her tongue and I was just like, "Oh, well."

My aunts ex husband knew I hated touching and stuff when I was a kid, and as a result he used to grab me and lick all over my face. It was bad enough that he was licking my face, but he was an alcoholic also, so his breath was utterly revolting. I would almost vomit afterwards and scrub my face clean.

The only person I wouldn't mind hugging was my uncle for some reason. The two of us were extremely close, and he was the only person I could relate to with my homicidal fantasies.
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Re: Do you like kissing/hugging/non-sexual romantic contact?

Postby ApathySchizoid » Fri Jun 07, 2013 4:28 pm

Solitary Recluse wrote:My aunts ex husband knew I hated touching and stuff when I was a kid, and as a result he used to grab me and lick all over my face. It was bad enough that he was licking my face, but he was an alcoholic also, so his breath was utterly revolting. I would almost vomit afterwards and scrub my face clean.

He sounds like a pedophile.
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Re: Do you like kissing/hugging/non-sexual romantic contact?

Postby Solitary Recluse » Fri Jun 07, 2013 4:38 pm

ApathySchizoid wrote:
Solitary Recluse wrote:My aunts ex husband knew I hated touching and stuff when I was a kid, and as a result he used to grab me and lick all over my face. It was bad enough that he was licking my face, but he was an alcoholic also, so his breath was utterly revolting. I would almost vomit afterwards and scrub my face clean.

He sounds like a pedophile.


He could be for all I know lol, but he did it with both of his kids too, so I'm not entirely alone on this one.
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