Do you avoid relationships and sex?

Diogenes started to masturbate in front of his audience in the market, saying to his surprised fans and critics: "Would to Heaven that by rubbing my stomach in the same fashion, I could satisfy my hunger"

Anyway, I certainly wouldn't avoid sex if it came my way, but actively seeking it out requires too much work for what it's worth. As for a relationship It sounds like a good idea as long as I could find someone I can stand for long stretches of time and with whom I can engage in (the more interesting to me) intellectual intercourse. This has not happened yet, sadly enough.

Epicurean wrote:Anyway, I certainly wouldn't avoid sex if it came my way, but actively seeking it out requires too much work for what it's worth.

I just wish that I could enjoy sex more.

shailene wrote:Never been in a relationship, or even close (lost a couple of male friends because I just couldn't go there).

That isn't how friendships work.

shailene wrote:I also imagine that only a controlling narcissist would put up with me in the long run. Sometimes I think it would be sort of nice and comfortable having someone make my decisions for me and take care of my basic needs (sex included), without forcing emotional intimacy or for me to socialize with his friends and family. Just be kind of like a pet. I've realized that I'm mainly attracted to antisocial traits though, so this might not be the best idea ever.

Hmmm. That reminds me of something I read on that site about SPD.

Personally I think if you want to be a pet you should be demanding strokes, bowls of fresh cream, spot in front of the fire. People have been known to pay thousands for a good pedigree animal.

I'll stick with being feral - I don't domesticate well, lol. However, I do eat food that's left unguarded.

shailene wrote:My fantasy ever since I was a kid is having a robot boyfriend I can just switch off or re-program when he starts to annoy or bore me, too bad those don't exist.

katana wrote:

shailene wrote:My fantasy ever since I was a kid is having a robot boyfriend I can just switch off or re-program when he starts to annoy or bore me, too bad those don't exist.

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Said robot should be able to perform:

1. Household activities
2. Bedroom activities
3. Social activities, subject to a cap or 1 per week

4. If none of the above 3, said robot should venture off and do its own thing.

Just to let you know before you come up with a list of specs, I'm not building the damn things...

A couple of weeks ago I confessed to a girl. But unfortunately she already has feelings for somebody else.
Well, I wasn't really expecting her to accept my confession in the first place, but at least I hoped I might get surprised. After all she was one of the few people I could actually imagine myself being with in a relationship.
Apart from that I am neither looking for something new nor was I ever looking for any kind of relationship besides that one actively anyway.

I like sex. I like it every day. Even multiple times per day. But most girls want an intimate relationship to accompany unlimited scrogging. A fleshlight is just not the same, but it is undemanding.

Alex Reed wrote:I like sex. I like it every day. Even multiple times per day. But most girls want an intimate relationship to accompany unlimited scrogging. A fleshlight is just not the same, but it is undemanding.

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I'd take the unlimited scroggin and pass on the intimate relationship.

Platypus wrote:

I hope that's not a reference to any member of this forum.