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Re: How would you react if someone told you they liked you?

Postby Eight » Sun Aug 27, 2017 7:29 pm

If the person didn't have a 'weirdness' to them which would cause me to doubt them, I'd like it.
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Re: How would you react if someone told you they liked you?

Postby ElephantEyes » Sun Aug 27, 2017 8:39 pm

Honestly I'd probably back slowly away.

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Re: How would you react if someone told you they liked you?

Postby Tyler » Wed Aug 30, 2017 1:56 pm

i asked my boyfriend what his reaction was. He first asked "Define 'reaction,'" and then said "It was "really awkward, because I didn't know how to handle things like that, at least back then."
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Re: How would you react if someone told you they liked you?

Postby Holodeck » Wed Aug 30, 2017 3:57 pm

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Long as I can restrict my reactions to non-verbal communication I'm pretty alright with comments like this. It's when people follow up with what do you think about that or something of that nature that I'm all...

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Re: How would you react if someone told you they liked you?

Postby HislilPrincess » Wed Aug 30, 2017 5:11 pm

I'd be either turned on or turned off depending on what I thought about them. If I was crushing, I'd be over the moon, If I wasn't crushing or attracted to this person, I would nip it in the bud pronto and tell them I wasn't interesting in them romantically however we could be friends.
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Re: How would you react if someone told you they liked you?

Postby ElephantEyes » Wed Aug 30, 2017 11:54 pm

There might be a brief moment of reciprocation, which becomes too intense and freaks me out. Then I start looking for any reason to devalue them, even if I have to make something up...because otherwise the idea there is someone that likes me, and I like them..... :shock: :shock: :shock: ....it makes my system malfunction.
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Re: How would you react if someone told you they liked you?

Postby 2093 » Fri Sep 01, 2017 4:29 pm

ElephantEyes wrote:There might be a brief moment of reciprocation, which becomes too intense and freaks me out. Then I start looking for any reason to devalue them, even if I have to make something up...because otherwise the idea there is someone that likes me, and I like them..... :shock: :shock: :shock: ....it makes my system malfunction.


Similar in my case. + In the back of my mind I start to think there is something wrong with their perception; they only think they like me, but it is just a matter of time they find out they don't. :roll:
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Re: How would you react if someone told you they liked you?

Postby ElephantEyes » Fri Sep 01, 2017 4:37 pm

2093 wrote:
ElephantEyes wrote:There might be a brief moment of reciprocation, which becomes too intense and freaks me out. Then I start looking for any reason to devalue them, even if I have to make something up...because otherwise the idea there is someone that likes me, and I like them..... :shock: :shock: :shock: ....it makes my system malfunction.


Similar in my case. + In the back of my mind I start to think there is something wrong with their perception; they only think they like me, but it is just a matter of time they find out they don't. :roll:


Similar. I usually do something that forces them to reject me.
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Re: How would you react if someone told you they liked you?

Postby ElephantEyes » Fri Sep 01, 2017 7:16 pm

Holodeck wrote:Image

Long as I can restrict my reactions to non-verbal communication I'm pretty alright with comments like this. It's when people follow up with what do you think about that or something of that nature that I'm all...

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The Breakfast Club? Loved that movie. The 80s...miss that decade.
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Re: How would you react if someone told you they liked you?

Postby zeno » Fri Sep 01, 2017 7:35 pm

I can't really think of any situation where it would even make sense for anyone to say they "liked" me in that sense.

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