How would you react if someone told you they liked you?

It's really a weird situation for us.
I've been dealing with it in the past two years, there's a girl that's like crazy for me, she send messages and almost beg for my attention... I think that our indifference as schizoid can looks kinda... "sexy" for some people...?

Anyway I feel tense when she tries something to approach me, she sometimes come up with some random story just to see me, like "I want some help with my computer"...

To be honest maybe I would have sex with her if she was hot, which is not the case. Also she has a very simple mind, I can't talk about deeper things with her, just small talk that I hate.

I'm no longer in school, nor a Japanese manga, so I'm not sure who, except unknown stalkers, would make such a confession. I have had people ask for my number. I tell them I'm not single, whether it's a lie or not.

I'd be annoyed. I have a personal status quo I prefer to adhere to, and if someone I knew confessed feelings for me, that would immediately disrupt my status quo. I'd be annoyed with them for doing that. I'd obviously turn them down and then probably ghost on them until I was sure there was enough distance between us that they didn't care for me anymore. Then, if I still enjoyed them as a person, I'd start treating them exactly as I had before they made their dumb confession, while ignoring that it had ever happened in the first place.

I found out a friend of mine liked me at the end of last year through a mutual friend. I was really confused for a while. He ended up writing a letter telling me his feelings a few months later. I was super uncomfortable at first and didn't know what to do. I don't like discussing personal things and feelings and I didn't know what to say or how to be with him. I tried to act normal around him and treat him as normal because he hadn't changed to me. But he kept pulling away from us/me and apparently had trouble being around me because of his feelings. I went numb for a while and couldn't feel anything. It was really weird. I desperately tried to hold onto his friendship but I haven't spoken to him in months now. So, in short, I don't react very well

My first gut instinct would be skeptical of it, and i would start to think of reasons why would this person say that. I don't interact with people that much, so it seems bizarre that someone would like me. I am not unlikeable person, but to like someone requires time and experience, and i just don't have that with many people.

As soon as somebody starts liking me. Romantically or non-romantically, I get creeped out and avoid all contact. I don't know why I do this. I often regret it later.

First of all, it would be so awkward. But then, i'll look for the best way to tell him "it's not going to work". This actually happened to me recently and as i said before, awkward . He asked me why and i told him i couldn't answer him for my own reasons. He still continues to hit on me and am growing impatient every time. It's becoming annoying now with all the little messages. It reached a point i just stopped talking to him. I've been ignoring him ever since. I hope he'll stop because if he doesn't he'll be out of my life just like that. I have no patience for such emotional intimacy. Like why can't people just get it!! Urrrgh

tinangie2012 wrote:First of all, it would be so awkward. But then, i'll look for the best way to tell him "it's not going to work". This actually happened to me recently and as i said before, awkward . He asked me why and i told him i couldn't answer him for my own reasons. He still continues to hit on me and am growing impatient every time. It's becoming annoying now with all the little messages. It reached a point i just stopped talking to him. I've been ignoring him ever since. I hope he'll stop because if he doesn't he'll be out of my life just like that. I have no patience for such emotional intimacy. Like why can't people just get it!! Urrrgh

Ask him to poop on you. That usually does the trick.

I would probably think 'ok, whatever.' Then get on as normal. It would come as a shock, but I would most likely be indifferent. (To be honest though, I don't remember the last time anyone but my parents said that they liked me, in any context.)

I'd be very suspicious, and I'd try to find out the motives that led him or her to make me this confession