i have interest in my mum

hi im a 22 year old and ive had a interest in incest since i was 17 and i really fancy my mum and i like to fantasize about her all the time and ive bin fantasizing about having sex with her since i was 18 and i know its wrong but cant help it and i want to confront my mum about it to help me overcome this problem and talk about it but don't know if its a good idea at all because im worried that she might get really upset with me and might even slap me across the face for telling her this or she might even think about sending me to a psychiatric hospital but i need to talk to her or someone about my problem so i can overcome it because i just dont know what else to do about it and sometimes i fill as if i dont want to ever overcome my problem because i like it, but i know its wrong i and i need help so i need to sort this out, so what should i do just confront her and tell her the truth or will that make things really bad, so please could someone help me with my problem i would really appreciate it?

I have moved your post to the Remorse forum as given its content I think it is a more appropriate place for it.

I am sorry you find yourself in such a difficult position and I think it is brave of you to seek help. I would suggest that this is something to seek some therapy about as it is a complex issue to deal with - what is fantasy and what is inappropriate, and a therapist could help you work through that.

Cracked

ok thnx but do you think it would be a good idea if i tell her?

I am sorry that you are dealing with these difficult feelings. I agree with CrackedGirl and think that it'd be best if you see a therapist who could help you process all this. As far as talking to your mom about it, I think that this is also something that is better to discuss with a therapist first if you are not sure what your mom's reaction to this will be. In therapy you will be able to discuss many important details of your situation that you can't discuss on public forums.

Hi, ElexionExonusAvalon.

Firstly, I agree with the other posts so far, that perhaps seeking therapy would be your best bet for now. If you're unsure of how your mom might react. It's not really unusual to have these feelings towards your mother. There is a theory called, the "Oedipus Complex", which, apparently is a theory that claims that all male children are born with a sexual longing for their mothers, and female children, a homosexual longing. It is, however, just a theory, and may or may not be true, but it has been studied for a long time, and has been debated and even proven in some cases.

I also think you might want to ask a friend about what they would think of the situation, just to get some extra input. Someone who knows your mother, and someone who knows you, perhaps? I'm so sorry that this is so tough for you right now. But I agree with Cracked, and with WiseMonkey. Seeking therapy will help you distinguish where to draw the line.

I wish you the best of luck!

Oh, you poor thing must be going through hell right now! Don't say anything to mum yet, it is very important you talk to a professional so they can help you figure out what would be best.