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My General Solution For My Unrelenting Remorse

Postby CaffeineDepnd » Mon Oct 23, 2023 1:55 pm

After a long time of dwelling with remorse, guilt and other emotions related to past actions, I believe I finally found a solution that goes as follows:

"The things I have done were wrong, but I did not realize at the time of my actions that what I was doing was wrong. Therefore, it was not my fault for doing what I did. However, those actions were still wrong and I should try my best to learn from them so as to not repeat those actions in the future."

I used to apply this solution when experiencing remorse for my past wrongdoings, but lately I've began doubting myself that this solution might be wrong as well. Can you please verify whether my solution is valid or wrong?

And if this solution is indeed valid, may it help those struggling with remorse to deal with their feelings better.
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Re: My General Solution For My Unrelenting Remorse

Postby Snaga » Mon Oct 23, 2023 11:51 pm

Seems reasonable. Sometimes, that's all a person can do.
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Re: My General Solution For My Unrelenting Remorse

Postby CaffeineDepnd » Wed Oct 25, 2023 1:15 pm

Thank you for your kindly response. Do you have any additional tips on how to improve upon this solution or how to stop doubting myself? Thank you.
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Re: My General Solution For My Unrelenting Remorse

Postby Snaga » Fri Oct 27, 2023 1:43 am

I can't think of anything. Well, maybe this- if you believe in a deity, ask forgiveness, then forgive yourself. Or at least, come to an understanding with it.
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Re: My General Solution For My Unrelenting Remorse

Postby CaffeineDepnd » Wed Dec 20, 2023 1:58 pm

Thank you for being patient. I've managed to make peace with myself about my past issues.

Best wishes to all.
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Re: My General Solution For My Unrelenting Remorse

Postby Snaga » Thu Dec 21, 2023 1:57 am

That's great news! Thanks for updating us, and wishing you a Merry Christmas!
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