I can't stop thinking about this 17 year old girl

Just.. I don't know how to get over this

solemnlysworn wrote:

sprock wrote:Yeh~ definitely not as pedophilic.

Using Pedophilia in this sense is just incorrect anyway. I get what you're aiming at but it adds stigma to it that shouldn't be there. She isn't a prepubescent girl. In the UK and many other places she is even of legal age of consent.

I'm British (though she was American) but 16 and 17-year-olds are still legally defined as children across the board here... just children who can join the army and adults are allowed to have sex with - it's pretty weird.

I agree that I don't really see a problem with 17/19 (same age as my parents when they got together as it happens) but it's still worth treading carefully. You do a lot of growing up around that time and the fact is that those over 18 simply have a lot more legal rights (and thus autonomy/ power) than those under that age.

Plus, if you end up together, you simply have to deal daily with the cognitive dissonance that you had sex with a child, legally or otherwise - I can't think of many situations where it's worth the fall-out tbh.

P.S. The 4chan poster (while quite possibly trolling) has a point - since as soon as you send a sexual txt or arrange to meet up w/ any kind of sexual interest or aim via the internet or exchange sexualised photos, you've crossed a serious legal line. If you end up in a relationship with someone who is 16 or 17 in a place where that's the age of consent I'd suggest it's kind of awkward to adhere to all that in this day and age. So, especially in the case with a potentially over-protective father, very much best to stay away from the whole situation.

P.P.S. Plus - and probably most importantly - she doesn't seem to be interested and has a boyfriend!

And this is in the AsPD forum because...?

justonemoreperson wrote:And this is in the AsPD forum because...?

My thought as well. This forum has again become the great dumping ground, I see.

Wish you were 50 so this could be entertaining. My boyfriend when I was 17 was 21. I don't feel molested.

Dulcet wrote:Wish you were 50 so this could be entertaining. My boyfriend when I was 17 was 21. I don't feel molested.

Bro. Honestly, I don't want her to feel like I'm stalking her though LOL

Dude I'm ######6 chubby, don't talk to anyone, antisocial, and just really ######6 stalkerish. But I can't stop feeling like $#%^ about it because ###$. Lmao.

She has a boyfriend though so it's kinda like ###$. She seemed to be into it

Oh you misunderstand what antisocial personality disorder is.. most people here think stalking someone is a good use of time.

Gotcha.. you're in the wrong place https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-con ... c-20353928

Rip

I mean.. I was in ######6 special education. Why did she have to know that. I hate myself for even getting involved. I want someone to cling on to and make my life better. But apparently I can't have that. I'm a pathetic psychotic piece of $#%^. I know if I talk to her again ill just bring her down. ###$ that.