I am a 25 year old male. I made a horrible mistake when I was a child and I do not know the ramifications of my actions or if I am over reacting. Here is the story:
When I was 10 years old, my cousins were over for a sleep over. I asked my youngest cousin who is 5 years my junior if she wanted to kiss me. We were sitting close to each other and alone and I asked her to come closer to me. We kissed. It was more of a peck and that was it. After that she walked away.
When it was later in the night, I asked again and she said no. No kiss happened.
I want to emphasize that I did not touch her. I did not hold her down or anything. All it was was a kiss and this only happened once. I did not lie on top of her. I did not do anything besides "peck" her.
I feel guilty because I feel as though I am a terrible cousin. This was a one time scenario but I still feel like I violated her. She does not appear to hate me now but I know that she could just be putting on a face. Again, I did not touch any part of her.
This thought came up because my current girlfriend was sexually molested when she was younger and she has had problems with it growing up. He scenario is much more violent than my scenario but it caused these memories to come back up and flare up my guilt.
I have no idea why I did what I did. I cannot tell you what was going through my mind. Should I apologize to my cousin? How do I get over my guilt? Any help would be appreciated.