I'm 19 years old. I have never abused anyone (though I was close to doing so when I was 13), but I have watched child pornography on repeated occasions. It hasn't really taken over my life yet, but I do feel really guilty about it. It started when I was 14. I'd been masturbating to porn for about 4 years and I started to get kind of uncomfortable watching porn involving adults, so I sought to find porn that involved children around my age. Unfortunately, I started liking what I saw and I never really grew out of it. I know it's wrong. I know that it's repugnant and disgusting. I hate myself for it. I've cut down on watching it significantly, but when I'm under a lot of stress I break. Usually I can get by using some drugs, but I don't always have drugs.
To make matters worse, I have some sexual dysfunction, most likely from my psychiatric medications, three out of five of which commonly generate sexual side effects. My sensitivity to masturbation is such that it may take me a very long time (>45 minutes) to finish, even while watching porn involving adults only (though I'm still aroused by it). I have tried having sex with someone my age, but I was not attracted to her from the beginning and I found it hard to go through the motions. Unfortunately, I cannot afford to be really picky. I'm very socially anxious and am very unhappy (and as a result, unpleasant to be around) most of the time. This is not a justification for my behavior. I just need to watch more and more extreme porn (legal or illegal) to get off. I'm unlikely to have any other sexual release other than masturbation for the rest of my life, and I never ever ever ever plan to abuse a minor. I know victims of sexual abuse, people I care about.
The only times when I am able to fully resist the urge are times when I'm in a relationship. However, this happens rarely, if at all. I am extremely afraid of women my age and I rarely leave my dorm room except for class, drugs, and tending to my psychiatric stuff. Now, I've thought about and heard a lot about "finding a hobby", but as every year goes on, I get more anhedonic. Pleasure has become almost impossible to feel and my motivation to do things has plummeted along with my hedonic capacity. But I am not posting in this sub-forum to discover strategies to repair this problem (i'm open to suggestions though). Every time I think about how screwed up this all is, I wonder if I should just kill myself before things get worse. It makes so much sense. I cannot escape this guilt, for I know that my behavior is unacceptable, so the best option would be to kill myself plain and simple.
I'm broke and out of stuff to get high on and I'm scared.