I'm 18 years old and need help with a few problemen in my life. When i was 14 i touched my sister when she was 5. I feel really sorry for this and don't know what to do. This happend a few times, i would touch her down there for a bit to look and sometimes put my genitials against hers to get a sort of fraction. Tegen nothing happend till i was got fifteen and touched her once. After that i never did anything again because I said this is wrong I shouldn't be doing this. Now I just need to tell my parents because I don't want to live with this anymore. I am not sexually attracted to children so I don't feel a urge to do any of this again. At that time I watched a lot of porn sometimes up to 5-6 times a day, now I can control it better.
I also have OCD, which I would like to get help with. I read on the internet that there are medicins for it so I would like to try this if it really helps. I have these unwanted thoughts and rituals that don't want to go. I don't know when this started but it's been going on since as long as I can remember. I always thought I had a weird way of thinking. When I was younger I always had these tics that whenever I got rid of one I always got another one. I also get really attached to objects and people really easily. I can't grow away nothing without feeling guilty about it.
I have anxiety and trust issues. I don't trust people often and always think people are making fun of me.
I want I tell my mother first about this and then my dad afterwards but I'm really scared to tell them and I don't want to lose my family because I love them so much. I don't wan to talk to a therapist first because I have never done this and just want my mom to tell first. I already thought about killing myself because I can't take this anymore but I can't do this to my family. How do I tell my mother about this and that I nee help with this OCD? I just can't live without them.
Please help, thanks