Is what my cousin and I did wrong?

This is my first time every posting a topic or even being on this site but I came across it and thought that maybe it can help me out. So I'm 16 now but when I was little, probably around 6 years old, my cousin came to my house to spend the night; she was probably around the age of 4. It was late at night and every one was sleeping but we were in my room. I remember the lights being off and us being under the covers. I don't remember what lead up to any of this. I just remember us taking turns licking each other down there. (We are both girls) That's all I remember, everything else is a blur. I haven't seen her since I was like 10 and I've never talked to anyone about this. I don't even know if she remembers it at all but I think about it every now and then and it makes me sick. I just want to forget about it

I don't think what you did was wrong. It is extremely common for children to do this kind of thing, often innocently. Have you tried talking to a professional about this? They may be able to help you move on.

it's possible she was molested and she encouraged it? yet, you just don't remember that... or maybe she saw her dad to that to her mum and thought it was normal. they are so many reasons but don't stress about it so much because you were so young and couldn't know any better anyways.

You were a very young child and you're still a kid yourself. Do you think it would be possible for you to draw a line in the sand for yourself once you turn 18 and start a fresh life as an adult? I don't think you deserve to need to feel guilty. It was experimentation, not abuse.