by Heartfullofguilt2 » Mon Feb 08, 2016 12:25 pm
When I was a young teen I used to fantasize about my stepbrother abusing me for some reason? Maybe because it was my earliest memory of sexual activity, I don't know. But that went away when I realized what all happened and put it in perspective.
But OCD screws with everything, you may not have it. See, what I'm struggling with now is that I need, like I neeeeed to know my precise age I was when these events happened in my life. Even though therapists, psychologists and family told me very articulately. Actually people even here. But when I think about it I think of a old creepy guy doing it not me as a kid, which sucks because it adds fuel to the thought.
-- Mon Feb 08, 2016 8:01 am --
To this day I'm struggling with thinking, what if one of my siblings hate me? What if I told my older sister what I did to her when I was young, without being sarcastic? Would she hate me? I get scared a lot from that. I just want everyone in my life to be at peace and not hate me. But I don't know what they are thinking. I hate this way of living. It's sapping my will to do everything, apart from eating and sleeping.
-- Tue Feb 09, 2016 4:52 pm --
It's Lena Dunham and Josh Duggar articles that just bring out the worst feelings. Feelings that I'm as bad if not worse.
-- Wed Feb 10, 2016 2:01 pm --
I'm stressing out extremely bad.
Having read newer post here lately and seeing everyone worried with the therapist reporting laws is freaking me out. I did talk to my therapist about everything and nothing happened. But seeing everyone freaking out about it has me doing the same.
What if he just happened to do it that time? I'm scared because I have a new psychiatrist I'm meeting.
-- Tue Feb 16, 2016 4:00 pm --
It's really really getting to me lately, I hope I'm not speaking to the void.
I feel I can be compared to Duggar or someone like him or Dunham and I take the comments intended for them personally. I'm trapped on feeling bad and somewhat ok. I see comments here and I feel ok for awhile then I read articles about either of them and the passion in people's comments are scary. As if they'd really condemn a 7 year old. It's scary that these people could say things about me I guess.
It sucks because I talk about it here and with my family and it's not a huge deal but if I see something like it in an article the passion flys from keyboards. It's scary and unsettling. I'm literally stuck between this community and my family saying it's not s huge deal and the media or article comments saying it is. It sucks. I want it to end.
-- Mon Feb 22, 2016 3:01 pm --
Anyone still here?
It's scary, not saying anything or by moving on it feels like I'm hiding something. Like Duggar was hiding his family's dark secret or whatever was in the magazine. It is pretty depressing feeling like I'm hiding something. I just want to move on and finally live like a normal human being.
-- Sun Mar 13, 2016 8:12 am --
Hey guys, I'm still here.
-- Wed Mar 16, 2016 11:46 am --
I wonder what my older cousin thinks about the stuff we did as kids?
-- Tue Mar 22, 2016 10:10 pm --
Even my brother.
-- Wed Mar 23, 2016 7:43 pm --
I feel like I could be called the same as Dunham and duggar, it sucks. I keep looking up articles relating to them and feel bad, then worse.
-- Fri Apr 15, 2016 1:52 am --
Thinking back on it I feel like a creep, as if I was an adult doing it. And thinking about it more and more makes me feel like I was a creepy person and I was like an adult. But I know I was 10 or younger.
It's hard being the memory is so fuzzy, and it's hard to figure out everything. All I remember is the image and that's all.
-- Wed Apr 20, 2016 10:28 am --
Help?
-- Thu Apr 21, 2016 12:45 pm --
The scenarios keep running over in my mind.
I try so hard but I can't figure out why I did that stuff? Why did I place my genitals on my brothers mouth while he was sleeping? Why did I lick my sisters butt? I feel people wouldn't like me for it... I still feel alone and comparing myself to Duggar and Dunham.
I try and try so so hard to figure out why and what I was thinking but I don't know... And I'm scared people would hate me for my childhood... and I don't think me being abused would play a part.
Can all of this really result from me being abused? Feels like I can't accept it.