Anyway, this snowballed into a situation in which lots of people (mostly male teenagers) sent harassing or outright abusive messages to female game developers and critics like Anita Sarkeesian (who always seem fine to me) forcing some women to move homes or even seek police protection. Not everyone affiliated with the Gamegame movement has engaged in such abusive tactics, but generally it has involved a lot of sexism and nastiness.
ANYWAY:
A group I am / was a member of had a thread about this in which lots of people were saying that the guys who support Gamegate or send abusive messages to these women are scummy and reprehensible and they should be made to feel bad. I'm on board with that if it changes their behaviour! Also, they probably *should* feel guilty - fair enough!
But then one or two members started to say that these people are literally monsters. I said I didn't think it would helpful to think of even bad, oppressive people as monsters because it means you never try to understand where they are coming from (even if it is a totally awful, misguided place) and so it prevents the possibility of change or even accountability. I also think seeing people who do bad things as 'monsters' is potentially dangerous as it can prevent self-reflection... I honestly feel like this is how a lot of *trigger warning* rapes occur... the perp thinks of rape as something involving force committed by monsters, so even though they're having "sex" without someone who is drunk or underage or who hasn't indicated that they want to have sex they can't be a "rapist" because rapists are monsters and they know that they're not a monster.
Also, people are just people. Even really horrible ones. It doesn't mean they shouldn't be shamed, or punished, or even despised, but it doesn't stop them from being human.
Anyway, my assertion that it was a bad idea to call gamegaters monsters was met with a lot of anger and derision - that I was trying to stand up for these horrible men (and teenaged kids) or say that they were the *real* victims... which isn't why I wanted to communicate at all.

It's not even that I care so much that they might have their feelings hurt... more that I don't think it's productive and closes down the possibility for change.
I received a lot of replies, but one of the most notable was someone saying that these guys are literally "sub-human" because they have behaved inhumanely and thus have forfeited their right to be considered a human being. Likewise, those who behave monstrously are literally monsters.
I said that I felt they were still objectively humans because I don't think humanness has to do with being good or decent... humans are lots of different things, many bad. I don't even think that being human is necessarily a value qualifier - it just is. A rabid dog is still a dog (even if we lock it away or shoot it). A teenage boy who says they want to kill a female games developer is probably not a good human... but just because other humans disapprove of or are disgusted by their behaviour (understandably so!) it doesn't magically stop them being humans. I don't think other humans have the right or power to make that distinction.
IDK. I guess I'm very emotionally invested in this, having been abusive... obviously I don't think I'm a good person, but I feel like I'm still a human being. I don't even mean in terms of having human rights (though I donate to Amnesty International so I support those for all humans) but just in terms of what I am.
I mean, how can you exist as a sub-human? Are you allowed to think as a human? Are you not a human at some sub-atomic or cellar level? The classification has so many complex implications.
I realise that I'm being quite literal... but then again I raised this point and some people were insistent that these individuals should no longer be considered as humans and that being a human is something you earn or can forfeit.
IDK. Maybe it's part of an American cultural mindset that I don't relate to? It seems kind of Christian in a Catholic or Puritan sense maybe? i.e. that people are 100% good and 100% evil and the evil ones aren't proper humans. I don't think it's necessarily a healthy mindset but so, so many people seem to have it.
TL;DR - I hate the idea of being a sub-human monster.