Hmmm....

Sometimes i "pleasure" myself to my best friends girlfriend, i feel guilty about it. its not all the time, not even half the time, but it still happens.... i know people have thoughts and fleeting fantasies but deep down i feel like I'm totally wronging him.

Sounds like you are having a difficult time with this. What I would say is that I dont think you have anything to feel bad about. Everyone fantasises about all sorts of things and as long as you are not hurting anybody (and I dont think you are) then I think this is fine. Of course if you were going to act on your fantasies that might bring up some issues but I think just having them is not a problem.

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Totally agreed. I can understand why you'd feel odd about this (my best friend once had a dream in which he had sex with my girlfriend at the time and then felt really guilty about it!) but I strongly feel that a person's mind is their mind. You can think whatsoever you want, as long as you do not act on these thoughts. Neither law nor society owns your brain. You are nor hurting anyone. Indeed, if would probably be more hurting if you told your friend or his girlfriend about this. Please don't worry.

Been there, done that

Thankfully, there's no such thing as the thought police (yet!!!)

For now, your thoughts are yours and yours alone. Enjoy them.

epiphany55 wrote:Been there, done that

Thankfully, there's no such thing as the thought police (yet!!!)

For now, your thoughts are yours and yours alone. Enjoy them.

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I really hope the thought police aren't actually created. Sometimes it feels as though our society is moving in that direction.

Incidentally, I also wonder how long it is until The Daily Mail realises that prisoners escape to pastures green every night in their dreams and seek to put a stop to it!!

sprock wrote:Incidentally, I also wonder how long it is until The Daily Mail realises that prisoners escape to pastures green every night in their dreams and seek to put a stop to it!!

Haha - indeed...

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