*mod note. May trigger; discussion of suicidal thoughts*
A year and a bit ago when I was 17 I went to a party with my boyfriend and some people in the year below so 16/17 yr olds. Anyway I had a lot to drink and was convinced this other guy was my boyfriend and I spent the whole night calling him my boyfriend's name. Because I thought he was my boyfriend I kept trying to undo his trousers and I would take his hand and put it down my pants and now I'm worried I sexually abused him. Anyway I felt awful about it and apologised and I thought that was the end because I had apologised and he said it didn't matter.
But like a few months later one of our mutual friends told me the guy was upset he missed my last day of school because he wanted to punch me. I haven't heard anything about him since I finished school but I saw him when I was home for the holidays recently and I was so terrified he was going to hurt me I just ran away crying. I honestly don't know what to do and every time I think about it I feel so guilty and disgusting I just want to die. I feel like killing myself is the only solution to this problem because I am so terrified that he'll physically beat me up if I see him again or he'll ruin my life by taking me to court and ruining my career of becoming a psychologist and I think the only way he'll be happy is if I was dead because he wants to beat me up.
I don't even know if it counts as sexual abuse but I am just terrified of going home to the same city as him and I don't know how to solve the problem because we haven't spoken since and we're weren't friends before the party either. I'm just hoping he will have forgiven me by now or has stopped wanting to hurt me but I keep getting all these bad thoughts about it and I feel like I deserve to die.