The Girl I Like Suddenly Ignores Me Completely

Hi, i am 18 and i study in high school. Its gonna be a very long post so please bear with me. I studied in an all-boy school since i was 7. And now in 18 only I get the chance to feel what its like in a coed school. Honestly, I have never interacted with any girls since I left kindergarten. I am just an average looking guy and i am in the 'not bad' region when it comes to academic results. Recently, a group of girls from the other class started looking at me for no apparent reason and one day when i went into their class to chat with my friend, a girl from the group suddenly said "hey look, [insert celebrity name] is in our class". Then she said, "hey,[my name], you really look like [the celebrity's name]". I was surprised at first, because i dont know any of these girls at all. At first, i didnt greet them or what when i see them in school cuz i dont know what kind of reaction i might get. Then one day, a subject teacher from their class was on a leave and our class was merged for that one day. In class, they attracted my attention by calling the celebrity's name out loud. I looked over to them and they looked at me and smile. Since then, i started greeting them in school whenever i see any of them.

There are 3 girls in that group that i notice. Girl A is the one who started all that so of course i notice her, but she is the girl i rarely greet because she tend to look away when she sees me in school like in a corridor. Girl B is my best friends' friend, they met in military service, and one day when my best friend came back from military service, he asked me and the gang to catch a movie. Apparently he asked her to join too. Thats the first time i saw her but i never engaged in any conversation with her at all. I usually greet her when i see her in school but not when she is with her friends that i dont know. Then there is Girl C. The one girl that melts my heart the first time i saw her in school. She is pretty and is the only one girl that i look out for in school especially during recess times or assembly. I always try to greet her when i see her. I really like her but i dont know if its the same with her.

One day, they added me on facebook. I accepted and we became friends. I have never chatted with Girl A in facebook because i know she has a boyfriend. Girl B chats with me quite a lot because she usually initiates the convo. Girl C i only chatted with her 3 times because she rarely online, maybe because she is a hardworking girl. And its me who initiate the convo everytime i see her online.

Coincidentally, Girl B and Girl C is also going to the same cram school as me. But we rarely greet each other because they always come late into the class and did not have time to look at the whole class and need to sit down immediately because the teacher is teaching in front. They have their own group of girls in front there reserving place for them. Or else i would have asked them to sit with me. Because they sit in front, they are usually the first ones to leave the classroom. And by the time i got out, they are nowhere to be seen.

Then one day in recess, Girl B and Girl C was sitting right next to my table, and i was sitting alone at the time. They asked me to join them and so i did. We talked up something and i feel comfortable speaking to them. Especially Girl C. The next day, the 3 girls asked me to hang out with them. I was shocked cuz i had never had a girl ask me out in my life. I initially said i am not sure if i am free that night and they asked me to take my time and think of it. The next day, i told them its ok with me. They looked kinda happy. But i told them i have transport problem, but thankfully the venue of our hang out spot is just a walk away from my house. Then Girl C said she will be glad to fetch me. I said ok of course. Girl A and Girl B lives quite near to my neighbourhood so Girl C says she will fetch all of us in one go. She lives quite far though.


So that night, we hanged out together, though i didnt speak much because of the presence of Girl A as i dont really know her well. Then when its time to go home, Girl C fetches everyone home and i was the last one in the car because
my house is linked to the road she uses to go home. In that brief few minutes, we had a pretty good conversation. And when we reached our house, before leaving the car, i said to her : "Its so late in the night and a girl like you driving alone is dangerous. Too bad i cant fetch you home. So remember to see if there is any car following you. See you in school tomorrow". And i said goodbye to her and she also said goodbye.

OK so before all this happened, in school, Girl C stands out the most among the girls because she is really really pretty. And i thought i am a very lucky average looking guy who gets to know her and with the privilege of being fetched by her is just totally insane. Sometimes she smiles at me, and i notice sometimes when i am talking to my friends, i see her looking at me and smiling to me. I smiled at her and wave at her in situations like this. And i am pretty convinced that she likes me too because i heard from Girl B that even though they are close, they have never hanged out together. I was surprised. She says its a miracle she will want to hang out suddenly as in the past, they asked her to hang out together but she always had excuses. So i thought maybe because i am also hanging out that makes her join the party.

But something changed after the night that we hanged out. All 3 girls started ignoring me in the school in the next day. I am used to Girl A ignoring me because when she feels like it, she will greet me and when she dont, she just ignores me. Then, Girl B, who i usually say good morning to when i see her in school, also started ignoring me. She talks to her friends in a group and when she looks at me, i said good morning but she just nods and continues to chat with her friends. Its even more weird as she didnt chat with me again after that night in facebook. Its like im alienated by them. Then, its Girl C. The girl which i really like. She ignores me when she sees me. She used to look at my direction when we are in an assembly. She looks to the opposite direction instead nowadays. Which makes saying good morning an almost impossible task.

But the most heartbreaking thing is, when we pass by each other, i looked at her and said hi, but she walked straight as if she doesnt know me at all. To add insult to injury, it was a narrow hallway too. Its really sad for me. I mean, for a girl that you really like to ignore you suddenly, and did not even bother to look at me... I can bear with Girl A and B ignoring me but Girl C ignoring me is too much for me to bear.

I suddenly felt like the world is a cruel place. I know i did not do anything wrong. I know i did not say anything wrong. But why are they doing this to me? They were the ones who started all this and suddenly they want nothing to do with this. If i knew things like this would happen, i'd rather not known any of them and being keep being strangers. I'd rather not have spoken to my crush and now she does'nt want to speak to me. I am feeling kinda depressed now. I cant tell any of my friends about it because i am afraid they might tell other people. So please people, give me some advice and tell me did i do anything wrong? I really want to go straight up to her and ask her whats wrong but i am afraid its gonna make matters worse. In just a night's time it feels like everything has changed. What should i do now? Sorry for the long post. I really need someone to know my situation and give me advises on what to do now.

Man. Quit whining... From reading your post I can gleam the following postulates:
1. You look like a celebrity... pretty awesome for any man lol
2. You got 3 chicks to hang out w/ u... sure it didn't go exactly as you wanted but it builds character!
3. Don't be a quitter; Try Try again. What are you? 70? If not you better start grinding those gears and try again
4. You're kind of shy but aren't afraid to take what you want. This I gleamed from girl B initiating conversation but you initiating conversation with girl C.
5. Like a butterfly. I think you'll be just fine. U don't have a car yet; you're still in HS. Trust me; the only reason I responded is because you reminded me of me. Just focus on your studies; Cram school is good stuff and I am sure you will look back on this with a grin.

Anyway, I'll leave you with this: girl C is the prettiest and she knows it. Probably, to show off her powers of attraction she may have bad mouthed you in front of girl A and girl B. This is okay, or maybe girl A and girl B started bad mouthing you first... who knows? Girls talk. The important thing here is to operate with group theory in mind. With any group of girls especially 3 girls 2 girls will usually form a mini bond against the other girl. It is up to you to figure out which of the two girls are closer. If it is girl A and girl B then just bide your time and wait for some drama to start. When girl A and girl C are closer together than either is with girl B it is your time to strike. You must carefully watch girl B since I am going to assume that she is the most demure of the three she will be most likely to respond well to compliments/chatting her up. Do so and at least you can have a pawn on your side with which to navigate into that 3 girl clique again. Although odds are, you probably won't need to do this since there are probably way more girls in your HS than just those 3. Anyway, take it easy man and if this helps; pay it forward

Cheers,
a humble Taiga

Thanks for your response man. I went to other forums and posted the same thing but they post mean replies. And how did you know what kind of person i am? Are you a psychologist? You got some things right about me just by reading the post. And your strategy seems good. But i am only interested in Girl C. So what should i do now? And you said i reminded you of you. Can i know why is that so?