Help with a friend borderline or avoidant

Help. I love a borderline man or love avoidant man, because he is borderline. After to be betrayed by his first wife, left for the second gf, and cheated by a third gf with a fake fb profile, he now seems to run from women. He says he wants his soul sister, but at the same time, he loves his ex gf. He has many female friends, and he does flirts, and goes to dates, but after, says just friends. When some of his friends, in the case, me too, and more two other ones, say we love him, he wants to cut friendship. How should I act with him, since he is hating me now cos I told this. He doesnt want to be friends anymore, start to distance himself, I lost my head, told him ugly things and now he doesnt want my pardons and he says he doesnt believe me to love him and some girls that play the role of his mother, he says he likes most, as in the case me, so they are dangerous to his heart to confuse his love with his ex, that doesnt want him anymore. Now he split me black, and no apologize that I do, works. Help. I think when he gets new female friends to relieve his suffering of borderline, he replaces them when he gets annoyed of the same ones too. And loses interest. How can I conquer a heart like this? Thru one year we were attached, the best friends of talking day and night and then suddenly, when he saw I loved him more than a friend, after my confession that I loved him, he started to avoid me and now he is angry with any flirt I do to him, along my apologies, he cant forgive me and says I dont really love him. He is mad at me in the truth. He said we never more wants to be my friend and started to threat me cutting my visas to the USA as he lives there, saying I am a stalker. I know I should have given time to him to cool down some days, so now I am looking like a true stalker, but I knew that another friend that told him she loved him, he didnt forgive her for 9 months, she apologized, he got madder and she gave him time and nothing. What a crime can be to love someone? Help. What does he have? What can I do with this? I love him, so I dont wanna run away and I would like to help him, but he is mad at me in the moment and say he will never be friends with me again.