Power Play in Relationships

Im sure there are but come on women have men beat in the being outrageously over emotionally department.

Bi-sexual huh. What do you say you and i go make babies the old fashion way.

Tempest80 wrote:I'm no shrink, but it does sound like many of your issues with women could very well stem from your mother. Is she still alive? If so, go kick her ass and let it out

No point in it. She is alive somewhere, though I haven't seen her in maybe 7 years. She is extremely difficult and will barely talk on a phone even if I call her.

Socialretard wrote:Im sure there are but come on women have men beat in the being outrageously over emotionally department.

I'd have to agree with that. Women are as a whole prone to being more overly emotional.

Socialretard wrote: What do you say you and i go make babies the old fashion way.

I'll be right over.

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michijo wrote:No point in it.

Now you're getting it. There is no point in holding onto anything, including the crap she did. I just don't really understand how things can effect people for so long.

Tempest80 wrote:
Now you're getting it. There is no point in holding onto anything, including the crap she did. I just don't really understand how things can effect people for so long.

Its difficult to say, because I dont really hold onto things. When I was younger, I made a joke out of this same event, and I played off like it was all water off a duck's back. But later I am thinking about the ultimate effects of dysfunctional family on my ability to form relationships with other people. Like once she went to jail for selling drugs, and I made a joke out of it with my friends, making it not bother me. But now I really see it, no women ever in my life of any consequence.

michijo wrote: But later I am thinking about the ultimate effects of dysfunctional family on my ability to form relationships with other people.

It makes sense, but beyond that. I don't know anything about forming genuine relationships.

Tempest80 wrote:

michijo wrote: But later I am thinking about the ultimate effects of dysfunctional family on my ability to form relationships with other people.

It makes sense, but beyond that. I don't know anything about forming genuine relationships.

Well you have sex though, so on some level you are meeting people, and even having children.

michijo wrote:Well you have sex though, so on some level you are meeting people, and even having children.

Yes, I've had 'serious' relationships, but there was never any bonding or emotion on my part. My children have the same father, my ex whom I was in a 'serious' relationship with, they were not planned.

I have no problems meeting people to date, have sex with or just for friends. All my relationships are superficial though. It's all about what I am getting out of it. Once I become bored with someone or have no more use for them, I move on.

Those aren't genuine relationships.

Tempest80 wrote:

michijo wrote:Well you have sex though, so on some level you are meeting people, and even having children.

Yes, I've had 'serious' relationships, but there was never any bonding or emotion on my part. My children have the same father, my ex whom I was in a 'serious' relationship with, they were not planned.

I have no problems meeting people to date, have sex with or just for friends. All my relationships are superficial though. It's all about what I am getting out of it. Once I become bored with someone or have no more use for them, I move on.

Those aren't genuine relationships.

I believe it. When a woman says something like I have anorgasmia or I cant have emotions, then it Is probably true. I have had some cases where I have doubted something a woman said about herself, like when my ex said "I dont believe in monogamy", and the real fact of it was later exposed.

Generally when someone admits something about themselves that society would see as negative, it's generally true.

Except AsPD, I find there's quite a few people who want to have AsPD but who obviously do not have it.

Tempest80 wrote:Generally when someone admits something about themselves that society would see as negative, it's generally true.

Except AsPD, I find there's quite a few people who want to have AsPD but who obviously do not have it.

It took me a while to really get these little hints that women give though, to take them seriously I mean. I didnt usually expect to see real evidence, but I met a girl who had anorgasmia, and I thought if I go down on her as I like to do, she is bound to have an orgasm just from my persistence, but she really couldn't, and I have the capability of giving a woman cunnilingus for hours. As you say, I thought she was just pretending, like pretending to have AsPD.