Power Play in Relationships

Tempest80 wrote:Most are! I checked out womens profiles on there once, they were all making fish faces, what the ###$ is up with that? Am I the only one who noticed that? It looks ridiculous All the profiles on that site are insanely fake, not that I'm one to judge someone for being fake. I wear a mask everyday, but it's needed for me. Not for them.

Okcupid takes a lot of work, but I managed to talk to a few women on there, and finally got one to write to me first. I even met one in a neighboring city I don't normally go to. All quite recently, tonight actually suddenly they started writing. I was surprised. I learned a trick of visiting a woman's profile but not messaging her. I did that to one woman, and finally she wrote me! Writing messages to them never works usually, but they check their visitors.

Tempest80 wrote:How the hell do you manage to keep meeting such low lifes? Why let her come over to cook in your oven because she didn't pay her bills? You puzzle me. You seem to aggressive and hateful, but then you do stuff like that.

I am not such a great person myself, so if anyone comes around, I tend to keep an open mind, just so I have company. Its supposed to be healthy to have company. At least someone is coming around. She watches my cat sometimes if I go out of town as well. A neighbor only...

Tempest80 wrote:I get tested every 6 months. I'm dead set on staying STD free, I need to keep healthy as my daughter has a medical condition that can turn life threatening any time, colds can trigger it. She's a match for my blood, so I need to make sure I can give her my blood if needed. High risk of her system failing when she's around 12 - 13 years old, she's 9 now. I'm
often travelling to Children's Hospital with her, on a regular basis.

What is her condition?

Such tests would be useless for me, since I only have sex at a rate of once every 2 years, sometimes less, and not because I dont want to, but because I am insane. Sometimes I consider committing suicide.

Tempest80 wrote:I can't argue that, I've not done any reading on the subject. Interesting though, if it is accurate.

http://www.herballove.com/article.asp?art=62

michijo wrote:Okcupid takes a lot of work, but I managed to talk to a few women on there, and finally got one to write to me first.

I've never messaged anyone first on any dating sites, not that I'm interesting in dating at all. Just mind games and my next toy.

michijo wrote:I am not such a great person myself, so if anyone comes around, I tend to keep an open mind, just so I have company.

Good point.

michijo wrote:What is her condition?

http://ghr.nlm.nih.gov/condition/septo-optic-dysplasia

and

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Optic_nerve_hypoplasia

Are the two that cause the most problems. She also has mild cerebral palsy and Aspergers. You'd never know by looking at her that there's anything wrong with her.

michijo wrote: I only have sex at a rate of once every 2 years

I have no clue how people can go that long without sex.

michijo wrote: Sometimes I consider committing suicide.

It's up for people to choose whether they want to live or die, I think suicide prevention is #######4. I should volunteer to work the suicide helpline lol

Tempest80 wrote:I've never messaged anyone first on any dating sites, not that I'm interesting in dating at all. Just mind games and my next toy.

Man has to do it. Ive messaged around 20 people on OKcupid, but only so far had 3 conversations or responses, 3 out of 20, and one person actually messaged me. I recently tried to make a complete okcupid profile. It takes a lot of work. Tonight though I had 2 conversations finally. When it rains it pours as they say.

Tempest80 wrote:http://ghr.nlm.nih.gov/condition/septo-optic-dysplasia

and

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Optic_nerve_hypoplasia

Are the two that cause the most problems. She also has mild cerebral palsy and Aspergers. You'd never know by looking at her that there's anything wrong with her.

How do these conditions relate to the need for sudden blood transfusion?

Tempest80 wrote: I have no clue how people can go that long without sex.

Its a horrible existence, and it causes me occasionally to fly into extreme wrath over little or no reason, and as you noticed I started yelling at some women in the street as I mentioned. But for a while your imagination can take over and produce fairly good results, but I think without having sex eventually one loses touch with reality. I have gone up to 5 years without any sexual contact with any person. I can get erections and masturbate fine, which I generally do every day for years. There is nothing that wrong with me either. I have trouble explaining it myself. It must be like in prison.

I am actually going to an anger management group meeting because of this. I actually think there may be some subtle solution to why I cant deal with women in anger-management. Ill probably find out I want to kill my mother. Something typically Freudian.

I think that may really be it, hate for my mother. She didnt "behave well" during my childhood.

Tempest80 wrote: It's up for people to choose whether they want to live or die, I think suicide prevention is #######4. I should volunteer to work the suicide helpline lol

I still have some sense of humor left. If I ever lost the remains of my sense of humor I might really do it.

michijo wrote:How do these conditions relate to the need for sudden blood transfusion?

Something to do with some form of shock, the Drs explained it to me when they tested my blood type to see if we were matches.

michijo wrote:I think that may really be it, hate for my mother. She didnt "behave well" during my childhood.

From what I've read in some of your other posts, this wouldn't surprise me in the least.

Kind of how women who were abandoned by their fathers tend to go for older 'Daddy like' partners.

Tempest80 wrote:
Something to do with some form of shock, the Drs explained it to me when they tested my blood type to see if we were matches.

I dont really understand it.

Tempest80 wrote:From what I've read in some of your other posts, this wouldn't surprise me in the least.

Kind of how women who were abandoned by their fathers tend to go for older 'Daddy like' partners.

Hmm, maybe, I don't specifically like older women, but I want particularly my girlfriend to be "good", and my ex girlfriend left me and began acting like my mother with redneck boyfriends she found. American culture really pisses me off. I think it is American cultural phenomenon. I mentioned also I dont like women drinking whiskey, same deal. My mother used to drink a lot, and sometimes she would be brought home by the police. Once a cop brought her home and I literally had to pull her away from the cop, so that she didn't assault him, calling him "pig" the whole time. He refused to return her car keys. But she was so drunk, she immediately passed out on the tiles of the kitchen floor. That was only one such incident. She was really no better than one of those drunk ladies in the soup kitchen growing up, a street crazy!

I'm no shrink, but it does sound like many of your issues with women could very well stem from your mother. Is she still alive? If so, go kick her ass and let it out

Tempest80 wrote:

Socialretard wrote:I sense a love connection going on in here!

Sorry to disappoint, but as you're socially retarded, I'm emotionally retarded on a permanent basis

Id take emotionally retarded rather than overly emotionally any day.

Socialretard wrote:Id take emotionally retarded rather than overly emotionally any day.

Anyone with any sense would. Overly emotional people are irrational.

Tempest80 wrote:

Socialretard wrote:Id take emotionally retarded rather than overly emotionally any day.

Anyone with any sense would. Overly emotional people are irrational.

I know but good luck finding a women who isnt!!

Socialretard wrote:I know but good luck finding a women who isnt!!

I don't need to look for women, I'm bisexual so I suppose sometimes I do, but only for sexual purposes. Otherwise, I look for men.

-- Fri Dec 16, 2011 9:45 pm --

There's plenty of over emotional irrational men out there as well. Too many.