Studying the relationships between man and woman, I have noticed that when a man and woman converse with each other, a sort of power play comes into effect. The woman seems to resist the man much the way a female pidgin does, but ultimately even by the time the woman shows slight evasive behavior, she has already in some sense submitted, even through casual conversation, which ultimately seems to lead to a sexual encounter.
I once read a Buddhist tract about the man being both a father and a husband to his wife, and in the sense of fatherliness, which I found very weird myself, the man has to be extroverted. The more social the man is, the more reliable as a person who can deal with events. If the man is not socially active outside the relationship, then the woman cannot truly be dominated, in the normal natural relationship progression. Various factors come into play until the woman is owned.
Sometimes the reverse happens, and the woman is the aggressive member, doing more of the socializing. This ends up very bad for the man, who consequently is jealous of his woman's coming and goings.
i think nevertheless that I am missing something from my analysis. What am I missing?