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Power Play in Relationships

Postby michijo » Wed Dec 14, 2011 7:26 pm

Studying the relationships between man and woman, I have noticed that when a man and woman converse with each other, a sort of power play comes into effect. The woman seems to resist the man much the way a female pidgin does, but ultimately even by the time the woman shows slight evasive behavior, she has already in some sense submitted, even through casual conversation, which ultimately seems to lead to a sexual encounter.

I once read a Buddhist tract about the man being both a father and a husband to his wife, and in the sense of fatherliness, which I found very weird myself, the man has to be extroverted. The more social the man is, the more reliable as a person who can deal with events. If the man is not socially active outside the relationship, then the woman cannot truly be dominated, in the normal natural relationship progression. Various factors come into play until the woman is owned.

Sometimes the reverse happens, and the woman is the aggressive member, doing more of the socializing. This ends up very bad for the man, who consequently is jealous of his woman's coming and goings.

i think nevertheless that I am missing something from my analysis. What am I missing?
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Re: Power Play in Relationships

Postby Tempest88 » Wed Dec 14, 2011 11:10 pm

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Re: Power Play in Relationships

Postby michijo » Wed Dec 14, 2011 11:37 pm

Senselessness...
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Postby Tempest88 » Wed Dec 14, 2011 11:54 pm

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Re: Power Play in Relationships

Postby michijo » Thu Dec 15, 2011 12:35 am

Close that mouth, you look like a fish. Mouth-breathing isnt considered a sign of intelligence, as the air is going to the lungs instead of to the brain through the nose. :)
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Re: Power Play in Relationships

Postby Tempest88 » Thu Dec 15, 2011 1:00 am

michijo wrote:Close that mouth


It's not an open mouth, it's a razz... meaning it's a tongue.

You have the open mouth there my friend :wink:

michijo wrote:Mouth-breathing isnt considered a sign of intelligence, as the air is going to the lungs instead of to the brain through the nose.


:? I hold my ground, you're lacking in sense.
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Re: Power Play in Relationships

Postby michijo » Thu Dec 15, 2011 1:31 am

I think you are a Christian, a Lutheran maybe.
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Postby Tempest88 » Thu Dec 15, 2011 1:52 am

:lol:

My tattoos would suggest otherwise.
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Re: Power Play in Relationships

Postby michijo » Thu Dec 15, 2011 2:04 am

I could never think of anything worth tattooing on myself. I briefly entertained the idea of an Esperanto star, the green star of Esperanto, or maybe the Esperanto flag.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Esperanto_flag#Flag_variants

I decided against it. I know someone with a grateful dead bear tattooed on the ankle. it seems like a regrettable item to have embedded permanently.
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Postby Tempest88 » Thu Dec 15, 2011 2:32 am

I have three tattoos, 2 of which were mostly thought out and the 3rd and final was on pure impulse, I was bored and felt like getting a tattoo.

I quite like my other 2 though, the third I'm indifferent towards... I don't regret it in the least and I don't like or hate it.
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