Who is We in this situation?

Alright as you know my wife wants a divorce because of my lieing, deceiving, manipulating, immaturity(I'm 21) by the way, unreliable, irresponsible, and I'm an impulsivie buyer. Now she's talking about how WE need a new car. Who the hell is we in this? She's the one wanting a divorce while I'm deployed over here in Kosovo, and she's talking about how our family needs a new car. There is no way in God's green earth that I'm going to put my name down on the car and her end up not paying the payments. Is this a smart idea or what?

I'm sorry, I'm new to this whole forum thing so I don't know your history. Are you really all those things you said you are or were you being sarcastic? No judgement here, I'm just coming in late in the game. About the car.....absolutely not!!! In my opinion, she wants a divorce, and she wants a new car and guess who's going to pay. Sorry about the whole divorce thing while you are deployed. That really sucks. I'm not being sarcastic, but rather sincere. Best of luck to you and please be as safe as you can be. You are only 21? Brush this off, you have alot of life to live!!