Hows nuts is she? *Long read*

She came to my house yesterday trying to drop off our daughter. I had our daughter last weekend and a few times this past week. She said she wanted to go to her friends bday party for Friday night and than a stag and doe for Saturday night.

I told her no because I had already had plans and then she freaks out. Calling me a piece of $#%^ and a prick. I had to go put our daughter in her crib because I couldn't let her be around her mothers nonsense. She begged and begged - she told me she needed a break, even though shes at school all day all week and her daughter is at day care - she will pick our daughter up from day care (about 4 or 5) and then bring her home and put her to bed.. doesn't spend any time with her - and she says she needs a break. If I did take our daughter.. she would of went out partying all weekend - got our daughter back on Sunday and throw her in bed all day and not tend to her. And then return to the day care/school routine all week.

She told me if I didn't take her that she was going to give me full custody because she ''can't do this anymore.'' She was acting like she was crying but there weren't even tears. She begged me to take her for about two hours. ''If you don't take her I'm going to do something very stupid that I know I will regret.'' She says they need to be apart from each other like all they do is argue or something. Our daughter is 15 months. She says she doesn't obey her.. doesn't listen, wakes up and keeps her up all night - but when I have her she goes to bed no problem.. she listens to me if I tell her no, she comes to me if I call her name etc - completely the opposite of what my ex says she does for her.

After the final no.. she freaked out and told me to get our daughter - when I did my daughter was shaking.. it was unlike her to do this. We were outside with the baby monitor so I know she didn't hear her mother screaming. I think my ex may be doing something to our daughter and our daughter is scared because of it.

When I put our daughter in the buggy.. my ex was telling our daughter.. exact words "Your fathers a piece of $#%^ that doesn't want anything to do with you anymore. Don't look at him because he doesn't love you anymore. He's a loser and your not going to him next weekend."

And then she starts telling me shes taking me to court to get full custody - acting like I want nothing to do with our daughter.. even though I'm going by our visit plan. She's trying to turn it around on me because I won't give her her own way and now she's reacting in this pathetic manner - even though the entire time she was over she was saying you need to take your daughter I can't do this I'm giving you full custody etc etc. We both have joint custody - I don't think she will be able to get full custody because of that.. not to mention I've kept a clean slate since our daughter was born.. c.a.s. has been involved with my ex countless amounts of times even though nothing has happened from it. My neighbors have witnessed her unbalanced unstable behavior.

I don't have the money for a family lawyer right now because I just got finished paying another lawyer off from lies she made back in May. What do you think I should do? What can I do at this point?

For God's sake, file for full custody. Take out a LOAN of you have to - this is your ONLY CHILD.

If you're in the US, there are free legal counsel available in each county. I highly suggest, no, actually I URGE you to get your ass over there and see exactly what your rights as a parent are.

This is ridiculous. I would just have people ready to attest to her behavior, and then make sure that they are okay with testifying.

Once it is all over, you'll be much better off, and NAMELY, so will your daughter.

AMP