betrayal

I met this guy through the Internet about nine months ago.We started talking thru emails and then we progress to phone calls.He is trainer for a high School in New Jersey.I am a divorsed woman WITH NO KIDS.He was 10 years younger than I.Anyway our phone calls became very personal and lasted for hours every day,I mean 10-12 hrs a day.Finally we decided to meet after admiting our love for each other and we met in New Orleans and then drove together
thru the U.S. for ten days.He told me all the things that a woman wants to hear and I agreed to go meet his family in New Jersey stay with them for 4 days and then go to Europe on vacation with him.I got there and everyhting was fine the first day,they treated me right then the next evening the sister comes over{she's an attorney} and as soon as she left he tells me he don't love me anymore he don't want to go to Europe with me,that he loves his family too much and he don't want to make a choice../etc.
I left came home and he proceeded to go to Greece to visit relatives.Not a word from him even when he promise me that he would call me.Now I am back I discover I am pregnant I sent him a telegram and nothing.So out og couriosity I typed his name on the Internet,to make a ling story short I have found out that he is gay.I am hurting,I miss him and I don't know what to do.I don't need financial support I am very well off.But I miss him and I am afraid and I am worry about the pregnancy.Anyone who can help me?
xios234

ugh! Don't you just hate it when some jerk pulls the rug out from under your world?

My advice would be to hold a funeral for him. Gather up your mementos of him (phone bills, pictures, etc) and hold a private ceremony to send him off. Then go to bed with a box of chocolates, a carton of chocolate ice cream and some good videos you can cry to. Then the next day, go out and treat yourself to whatever you enjoy most. Make it a special day of treats for yourself.

what you have to do now is decide what you are going to do with your life now that you have another human being to care for. Go all out and enjoy your pregnancy. Wrap yourself up in learning and shopping, preparing a nursery, etc. Join www.parents.com/ American Baby is another good one. Find a good OB GYN. Start looking for a good pediatrician, too. Find a good support group. You will find you will be so busy in the coming months that you won't have time to bother with the jerk.

::hugs::

shadoe