Strange issue with GF

Hi, so this is my first post here and hopefully someone can help.

I've been dating my girlfriend for a couple months now and we like each other a lot. She is 19 and a virgin, and I'm 22. However she has a psychological issue. She can't handle if her boyfriend had sex with other girls before. She says that she has to feel special to the guy and doesn't want to be "just another girl". She says that she also can't handle imagining the guy actually having sex with someone else, even if it's in the past. She feels like some other girl "already had him" and he's "used". She also doesn't want to know that some other girl experienced anything like that with him. She hates feeling like that but doesn't know how to fix it.

She never had a long relationship or been in love before and says that this ruined previous relationships. She also says that even knowing about exes of the guy she's dating can turn her off immediately. She says she wants to get cured from this bad feeling. I think that maybe it's a reflection of some belief she subconsciously has, but the belief must be ex "going too far" . I appreciate anyone's help on this as KI'm not sure how to fix that.

Why would you want to "fix that"? You've been with her two months, she's told you about this insecurity, so why continue on? Are you a virgin? Are you willing to endure her jealousy, and possibly being cross-examined in regards to who you've dated, and how far you've gone? Or has that already taken place?

considering shes 19 shes past the age were the major population of males are virgins. Shes just gotta come to terms that you cant wait for someone you havnt met yet. Sure if you knew about her at the age of 16 but couldnt meet her til you did then sure you may wait, but that doesnt happen. You roll with what you have at the time. Im not to sure if logic will help in theis siutation though(situation run by emotion).

in short: try explaining that its not the same as with the other girls, and that you would have waited if you knew her before those girls, but tahts not how life works . i dunno this is a odd situation.

soudns like she has issues with thinks not working out to the plans in her head. She wanted a virgin, but didnt fall in love with one.

soudns like she has issues with thinks not working out to the plans in her head. She wanted a virgin, but didnt fall in love with one

thats pretty much it. im a girl, and i lost my virginity to a virgin..thats always how i wanted it. i can understand what it would feel like if my bf had had sex with other women.. for some girls it just wouldnt be right at all. you have to respect that. but all you can do is, like zausel said, assure her it not the same as with other girls and maybe that you would have waited, and that it doesnt matter anymore coz if you love her and she loves you, she will have to get past that. and you will have to help her, be supportive and dont act like your tryna 'cure' her of something. good luck..