See if you can find the meaning of true love in these quotes

All the quotes are correct, and all of them are directly related. If you agree with one, you have to agree with all of them.

The typical idea for the strongest love is considered by many that one person dies for another; in other words, sacrifice. Love is a verb, not a noun. It isn't a feeling or an emotion; that's just hormones. True love doesn't exist between "lovers" so much as it does between parents and children; and such love is almost impossible to find around here these days.


For true love is unconditional, it means, "I love you... no matter what."
It is not, "I love you... because you're beautiful." or, "I love you... because [insert anything you want to say]".


So the married and dating couples can say that, well, it has a harder meaning than just being romantic. Girls, imagine if your boyfriend/husband had sex with another woman? I don't care about what my sister said when I asked her (who answered, "Oh, he would never do that!"). Would you still love him? If you had a past relationship when you were cheated on, and you dumped the first guy, reconsider your thoughts.

Guys, if that girl of yours walked away from your dreams and imaginations to go and pursue something else, leaving you behind, would you still love her?

This is all vice-versa. But the idea remains. If your significant other burned your house, killed your cat, mother, sibling, or if your best friend had an affair with your spouse, would you still love them? If not, it isn't true love. Loving is about complete and total 100% you don't care what they do or how they act, or how they look. You don't even care what they look like on the inside. Even if your significant other turned into a crazed killer on the run, caught amnesia and didn't remember you anymore, or hit you or threatened you.


When you get two lovers like that together, the bond is truly inseparable. Take it from a story I'm writing for one of my books. A man obsesses over this woman ever since she graduated high school. He followed her and hung on her, lived for her, even went to bed with her once or twice, but she eventually got married and had children. Furious, the man stalked her husband and eventually threatened his life to her. He set her up to have an affair with him and for her husband to find out. He threatened to kill him as well.

So the woman divorced her husband and re-married the madman. Eventually, the husband finds out near the end, through all of his pain and sorrow, that she divorced him, left their children, and married another man who tormented her in bankruptcy and mad obsession because she loved her husband that much.


Would you love your spouse enough that you would forgive them if they left you for someone else or cheated on you? If not, then it was never true love to begin with.



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Now, this is the major reason I'm not going to marry. Because I believe the girl out there for me deserves to have someone else. I don't think I've met her yet, but I love her enough not to marry her. I have said elsewhere that I am genophobic, have the fear of sex. I'm also an exclusive pedophile, meaning I am sexually attracted to only young girls.

My wife, if we married, if she had true love for me, would suppress her needs for a sexual relationship because she knows that I have a particular distaste towards sex. And she would lay in bed and suffer because of me, and the thought hurts me. She's going to know that I don't appreciate her beauty, and if we had a son, he wouldn't be her own but most likely adopted.

I think it makes perfect sense. People need to not care about themselves too much, and think about their partners. Love is about two people, not just one :p

All three quotes depicts what love should be. To love someone for real should be unconditional but it doesn't mean that you'll love yourself less in the process too. It goes both ways! Sacrifices are often done to make the relationship work but "faithfulness" and "respect" should always remain. Love is not enough if you you'll exclude the two.

I lke #3. It's true, no human being is powerful enough or can love another person enough to make them OK or fix them. I have to remember that or I'll get disappointed in people constantly. Only God can give me what I really need, and I believe it's what people who only concentrate on meds and therapy are missing.

These love quotes are quite decent to understand.
Loves quotes always has some or other meaning.

marykid wrote:

kill__joy wrote:True love is when you would die for that one person.

Really?

That seems kind of stupid to me. I mean, what's the point in dying if you don't have to? You might love them, but if you die and they don't, they're going to keep on living and loving (someone else), and you'll just be dead. Whereas if you let them die for you, then you're free to keep living and loving (someone else). That's just logical, isn't it?

There's always other people, and weirdly, not all of them will ask that you die for them. So let the one that wants you dead, die.

Wow. I really hope whoever wrote that reads what I'm about to say.
True love IS when you would die for somebody. But, not to prove a point of commitment...that would just be silly. To end your life so that they will live is a more accurate quote, like giving them a heart transplant. I'll have to say the best love quote would be along the lines of "True love is when you would end your life so another could live on" ..just ask jesus.

Btw my favorite book on love is By the River Piedra I sat down and wept -by paulo coelho

The meaning of true love... the idea seems impossible to grasp.

I guess true love is unconditional; that's the key word here. There are no conditions to how you feel about them - "I'll love you if...", "I'll love you as long as...".

true love is a coined term...is two people in love that have no limits to their honesty with each other. it is a relationship where each person knows with absolute certainty that anything can be spoken to each. and more...is the wanting and desire to see and hear the others response, knowing it to be of certain value.

so guess then that true like would be the same as true love in a sense. true love is so elusive because of the hardship to find a person you love and then, moreso, to make it perfectly honest.

but...suppose i could be wrong as i have not been in it.

This one goes for relationship & not only "Love".

"Real friends are people who know you for a long time but still like (or love) you"

I can totally agree to these quotes, but the second one should not only pertain to marriages, but simple relationships as well...

and don't let it fool ya.... there is nothing simple about boyfriend/girlfriend relationships lol