Borderline Personality Disorder Relationship Breakup

Beaten_Down wrote:You should do plenty of research on the BPD forum and see what these women put their partners through

I'd like to repeat a couple of things already said:

Platypus wrote:not everyone with BPD will behave the same way

MissAli wrote:Not all of us BPD'ers are the same.

Not all of us BPD women put our partners through pain. Some of us are, in fact, in long-term, healthy and stable relationships with men who are not feeling like they are being constantly hurt.

BJJ, why do you want someone back who 'shattered your heart'? Regardless of her mental health status, why be with someone who hurts you?

r2d2 wrote:if you can give so much love to another person, then you should be able to love yourself as well, right? i would start with that, loving and healing yourself. and not give any more attention to the ex, at all.

I think this is really wise.