Wanting to win wife back

Thank you very much for the responses, they are helping tremendously. Giving me a different insight.

I'm actually on "vacation" right now, I live in Tampa florida and to get away from the insanity I came to Ohio to see family, next I will go to Oregon to see friends later this month. Then I guess return to home, hopefully much better.

I am going to take the advice given here, much appreciated. I am going to distance myself from her right now and will continue to do so till I am better. She had sent me a confusing email just yesterday and I am going to let it go unanswered, until I know how to properly approach her, from a healthy mental standpoint. If she is there at the end of this path, its meant to be, right?

She's the love of my life. She had said numerous times we were soulmates. I just dont know why we couldn't work things out if that is the case. Such is life I guess, its not like the stories and movies.

Socialretard wrote:I hate seeing people being used and by the sound of it, that is how she is treating you. She is controlling you emotionally, you dont deserve that. Who knows maybe when its all said and done you guys will get back together. Its just too messy right now though. Distance yourself from her or atleast protect yourself better, you dont need to make your life even more difficult than it must be right now.

I like this advice.

Darth Krispy wrote:I am going to distance myself from her right now and will continue to do so till I am better. She had sent me a confusing email just yesterday and I am going to let it go unanswered, until I know how to properly approach her, from a healthy mental standpoint. If she is there at the end of this path, its meant to be, right?

I think that sounds like a really good approach to take.

Darth Krispy wrote:Such is life I guess, its not like the stories and movies.

Yeah, real life is rarely a fairy tale.

Good luck with the journey and enjoy your travels. Please feel welcome to keep posting on the forums and let us know how you are doing!