My boyfriend and his ex-girlfriend/babysmama

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I've known this guy through a friend for about a half a year. It wasn't until about a month and a half ago that we hooked up. He is the best thing that ever happened to me. I can see us together for the rest of our lives, he makes me so happy. The only problem is, well the friend that i met him through told him that i'm a slut and this and that. I admited to him that i did sleep with a few guys before i met him but i told him that he has made me change. I do talk to one of my exboyfriends. I try not to hang out with him or answer his phone calls cuz i know it bothers my boyfriend but even if i did stop having anything to do with him, he wouldn't believe me. He thinks i still talk to my exboyfriend, or aquantances really but really i don't. That is one problem. I want somebodys advise on what you think i can do to get his trust.



My second problem just arose last night. He has two kids, they are so adorable, i met them and hung out with them once or twice. I fell in love with his youngest one, he is the sweetest thing. he is 2 years old and is quite the ladies man. Anyways, their mother, they were together for almost 5 years and he wanted to get out of the relationship for the past 2 years. So i know he would never get back with her but she wants him back bad. She is using the kids to try to get him back. He loves his kids and wants to see them as often as he can but he also spends time with me everyday. Their mother told him that he cannot see the kids anymore if he is with me. That breaks my heart but i can handle him spending a little less time with me to see his kids but the thing is, he said he doesn't want me to cheat on him if we don't see each other as often. I would never do that and i don't know how i can get him to see that. I am hoping that once he gets his own place that he will try to get custody of the kids because then she has no say in when he can see the kids. She really doesn't have any say in it anyways but i need somebodys advise on what to do. I don't want her to ruin our relationship.