I am 25 virgin guy who want sex, but too shy to get anywhere

I am 25 year old virgin male, almost going to be 26. Recently, I have been really dying to have sex with a girl. In fact, I have been dreaming too much of having threesome with 2 girls.

I am however a really shy, introverted, and some what picky guy. I have actually recently make sort of friends with 2 girls and managed to take with numerous other girls. However, I haven't really asked them on actual dates.

Another problem is that I would be too nervous to initiate any physical contact. Probably because I am a virgin I am very nervous about the though of touching girls even though I want sex bad. I would seriously would need girl to initiate or explicitly tell me "you can kiss me" before I would be comfortable proceeding.

I seriously do wonder how the heck to proceed. Just making friends with 2 girls took all of my guts. I am seriously running out of steam to keep myself out of my shy/introverted personality...

do you have any other reason, besides sex, to begin dating women? mean, if all you want is sex, i understand their is real old profession that seeks to satisfy your desires.

Last I heard prostitution was illegal in the US.

My number one reason to date is because I want to have sex with hot girls. Family and marriage are actually not too much of high priority.

well... fortunately for you, most women will not allow you to have just SEX. cause, evidently you don't know this, SEX don't lead you where you want to go. and i'm not necessarily talking about family and marriage...talking about love and joy shitt...ok?

one thing is for sure guy, without love, you will never come to find even the extreme combination of love and erotic in KISSING a woman.

SEX is something...yes. but is only one component of the big picture.

seems you have not only missed the sex part guy...you are missing the whole thing about women!

It's legal in Nevada. Go there.

So far the only suggestion for action is go to legal brothel in Neveda?

I guess there it is going to be too hardy for shy guy like me to find a girl and maybe fall in love?

Rsystem wrote:I guess there it is going to be too hardy for shy guy like me to find a girl and maybe fall in love?

Sorry Rsystem, but from your original post it sounded like you were only after sex, not love.

I don't think finding love should be too hard for you, but I'm not sure if chasing sex is the best way to find it.

Finding love is THE hardest thing by far. Getting sex is easy if that's all you want. Being the guy, you will HAVE to make the move: don't expect the girl to, but then again young girls now are probably quite different. In any event, even if you land one, you'll have to show her you've got some sort of back bone, or she'll have no respect for you. Women look for strength, and I don't mean being able to lift 50 kilos, I'm talking about mental and emotional strength.

You'll find pretty quickly that without love or an emotional connection, the sex will be pretty boring anyway. Most women will tell you that it's as boring as batshit, and in fact, a 'chore' if you don't love the guy. FACT

It not easy to convince any girl for sex you will meet automatically with girl who agree with you. Always stay great looking , Its a key to attract girls.

sweetcheeks wrote:
You'll find pretty quickly that without love or an emotional connection, the sex will be pretty boring anyway. Most women will tell you that it's as boring as batshit, and in fact, a 'chore' if you don't love the guy. FACT

I don't agree with that at all. You can have great sex with someone and not love them and you can love someone but the sex could be awful.