For guys who can't get dates

O.K, here's a post for scarecrow.

I get your point: My girlfriends all tell me how strong I am. I'm an only child, and so I've spent my whole life getting to know me. As a result, I like 'me': I love 'me' too. Anyone who has seriously dug deep enough and spent time looking at who they are will understand what I'm saying. I'm not interested in all the sh** about not showing and nurturing your best assets. We were all born to become the best we can be. WTF is "playing down" your best assests all about? It's all #######4 if you ask me. Why does society train people into believing that they shouldn't sell themselves honestly enough. No one knows you better than you, and unless you tell people who you are, don't expect to cash in on its fortunes.

We're all told to sell yourself when it comes to getting a job, but you're supposed to downplay, even tell people you're not great when it comes to personal happiness? What the hell is that about? And NO, I'm not talking about being arrogant. That's the same side of the coin as the pathetic, 'tell everyone you're not that good' syndrome.

I do get your point scarecrow. I thought about your post on the bus coming back from work. If someone said to me, go and bundy jump, I'd run a mile. Then again, not because of fear itself, but because I think it's an incredibly stupid thing to do that is dangerous for your health. So I do base the decision on knowledge rather than innate fear, but I get your point. I guess because I'm an only child who was raised to be incredibly independent, I've gained a lot of strength from experience. I do have cobwebs too, like everyone else. However, do I keep blaming those cobwebs to excuse moving forward? NEVER!

Life is full of so much pain and sadness, yet I'm lucky enough to be living in a first world country, and only a quarter of the world's population have that fortune. I'm one who appreciates what I have, always noticing life's inanimate delicacies that most people wouldn't give a second thought about. I love emotional ink that runs through life's cracks, yet most seek to bury it. Emotion is life's greatest hidden treasure, yet so many treat it like frozen liquorice. What was the point of this post?

O.K I'm going on a tangent, so I'll stop, but I'm hoping you get my gist.

What I can suggest if u see that some girl not likes you then don't waste your time try with next

miromirante wrote:What I can suggest if u see that some girl not likes you then don't waste your time try with next

People have done just that, only to be rejected again and again and again. Asking girl after girl after girl after girl. Time after time after time after time. Year in year out year in year out.

This happens to alot of guys. Why? Because women in today's dating scene have been conditioned, from the time they were little girls, to only fall for men who are great-looking, 6 feet tall, have high paying jobs, a nice car, a nice house, and a willingness to be either a sugar daddy or a bad boy.

Anway the point of this topic is there is a support group for people trying to find dates but can't for reasons stated above. Click on my website button under my name. Feel free to listen to the radio broadcast and call in (long distance charges apply when you call in unfortunately). Even women who can't find dates for similar reasons are welcome.

If you would like to join our discussion on a regular basis without the long distance charges let me know and I'll help you out.

scarecrow817 wrote:

miromirante wrote:What I can suggest if u see that some girl not likes you then don't waste your time try with next

People have done just that, only to be rejected again and again and again. Asking girl after girl after girl after girl. Time after time after time after time. Year in year out year in year out.

This happens to alot of guys. Why? Because women in today's dating scene have been conditioned, from the time they were little girls, to only fall for men who are great-looking, 6 feet tall, have high paying jobs, a nice car, a nice house, and a willingness to be either a sugar daddy or a bad boy.

Anway the point of this topic is there is a support group for people trying to find dates but can't for reasons stated above. Click on my website button under my name. Feel free to listen to the radio broadcast and call in (long distance charges apply when you call in unfortunately). Even women who can't find dates for similar reasons are welcome.

If you would like to join our discussion on a regular basis without the long distance charges let me know and I'll help you out.

I really don't know what that sites about but it sounds far out there. Is there a conspiracy going on within the dating scene I'm unaware of? What's are the proposed solutions?

As far as the world goes, it's a selfish world indeed. But to say today people are more selfish than yesterday isn't correct. Men are no longer clubbing each other, then raping and pillaging for their women. Men today have to be more social suave than they had to be in the past. Times have changed and men who don't adapt get weeded out of the gene pool, sadly. The intimacy of mind games has always been the same though.

It's a blogtalk radio broadcast that I'm a part of. We discuss dating scene topics and what's really going on behind the scenes in politics. The broadcast runs from 8:00pm to 10:00pm Tuesdays to Saturdays.

There may or may not be long distance charges if calling from within the U.S. Not really sure as I don't run the radio show.

sweet cheeks, your a dike an x dont want you . Stop bullying the guys that carnt pull a woman . Your hole world is consumed with hate for men, just because x ###$ you off.