New Guy.

Oh my goodness, Katie. This sounds just like a basket of problems, and even potentially dangerous. (Is it a good idea to get close to people with a fast and loose grip on the truth and/or reality, and an arsenal of weapons?)

None of the details make any sense to me as a detached observer. But I worry about you.

I'm also curious as to why you'd be or stay involved with him. It might sound trite, but I think you have to value yourself more highly and find someone better!

Bottom line: end it before you get too far into it. This is a troubled person.

maxikaika wrote:I hate to say it but he seems more like a compulsive liar to me.

Almost, except he doesn't seem to know how to treat the real world as the real world, even in his own mind and his personal life. It seems like he thinks he can make his fantasy world real in his mind by acting it out in his life. A compulsive liar just lies.

UPDATE:

So far, I have stayed with him. Although a few interesting things have occurred:

A) He won't tell me the year he was born in. He claims he's 18, but when I asked if he was born in 1992, he said, "I can neither confirm, nor deny that." He says it's because of his job with the NSA.

B) He's leaving for Tripoli, Libya tomorrow. This, I know for a fact, is true. However, this makes me suspicious about his age. I believe, from what he has told me, that he's a sniper. (He's not allowed to tell me his exact job.) AND he has top security clearance. I know he joined the Army when he was 17, (he had parental permission), but, and correct me if I'm wrong, doesn't it take a long time to gain clearance?

C) He also doesn't work for the Army everyday. He went to art school, worked for a piercing shop, worked at an amusement park over the summers, worked with a computer company, and had that whole body guard/spying business.

D) I finally found out his last name, but only because he said it out loud when he was talking on the phone to an Army personnel.

I said I'd wait for him, but I don't know. This would make sense if he were older, but he doesn't look very old at all. On his YouTube videos, he said he was 17 on videos from last year, and it would make sense because he made them before he joined the Army. (But couldn't anyone who could do simple math figure out his age because of them? Why didn't they make him take them down?)

I'm really confused. =/