General Help

Hi

I have a question on all you caregivers or anyone who generally looks after someone with a mental health issue.

My friend has a mental health issue (schizo affective Disorder). I may be a caregiver for them but really need to talk to those who have experience with this.I'm needing to know

1. What are the highs and lows of being a caregiver?
2. What kind of support do you get whilst supporting the one you are caring for?
3. What about when they are really poorly, like they are saying really mean things, how do you cope?
4. How do you cope in general?

I'd like to know to get an idea on what to expect.

I will speak for my wife who is my caregiver, You have to be a very special person to be a carer ,usually a wife or husband not a freind, because you have to put up with $#%^ beyond the call of duty. My has put up with more than anyone should ,why because she loves me, thats were you have to be to be a carer, drunk , going awol , not speaking for weeks through depression, suicide thoughts, getting lost when out, im not violent but many people mentally ill are,you will get shouted at abused the hole lot. If your not inlove with the person you want to care for forget it.

Hi

I am in love with my friend that's why I am looking for help and needing answers from those experienced. I would do anything all the effort and commitment. I am full prepared for it. Just need to know what I am getting prepared for.

beckyc wrote:Hi

I am in love with my friend that's why I am looking for help and needing answers from those experienced. I would do anything all the effort and commitment. I am full prepared for it. Just need to know what I am getting prepared for.

why didnt you say you loved your friend , that makes the difference. But you dont get many caregivers posting on a mental health thread only the patient.

I'm even happy to hear what the patient's experience is like as well