Am angury husband

I have an 11 year old girl. She is from a preveouse marriage. I am remarried. We have been married for 4.5 years. The last 2 years. He makes me feel like I cannt do anything right. He is always makeing me question my ability. No matter what the problem is. It always ends up being my fault. No matter what I do. Im afraeide to say anything due to knowing Im going to be belittled. He drinks alot more. Than he used to. Im sure that is my fault too. Please help me understand how I got to this point with my husband. Sincerly Giveup

Hi there...
I hope your addy gives no indication of how your feeling right now..
Please do not give up, there are always other options available.
I can only imagine how difficult it must be for you right now and it is easy to blame yourself when a relationship starts to fall apart.
But also remember there are two of you in this relationship and for it to work successfully you both need to communicate how you both feel.
From what you have posted you say "you are afraid to say anything" this I would suspect would be the biggest problem for you right now.
Have you got supportive family/ friends around you right now?
Are you able to share with them how you are feeling?
Would it be possible for you to consider moving to a friends for a while with your daughter, until you work through some of these issues you are facing?
If you feel completely unable to freely to talk to your husband and to be listened too. Maybe for now anyway it would be better to put yourself and your daughters happiness first and move out of this unhealthy enviroment.
You sound afraid and the emotional abuse that you say he is inflicting on you and now you are blaming yourself for his actions are really the first steps of you taking on a victim role.
Safety in these situations should be your first concern, if you feel constantly afraid and in fear then I would suggest its time to pack your bags and leave.
Sorry for this but I believe its best to save yourself and your daughters life first before putting your marriage above any of this.
Sometimes with space and healing these issues can be resolved but only if you are both willing to do this.

Goodluck and post us back and telll us how you are getting on!