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Im afraid my BF doesnt like me anymore....?

Postby Chantal36 » Wed Jul 07, 2010 3:53 pm

Hey everyone..
Im new to this so im just going to post my topic and see what happens from there... If anyone is feeling the same way i am or in the same situaiton i would really appreciate sugggestions and posts on here
Ive been dating my bf for about 2 months now and its been going great. This past week or so ive been feeling very alone and vulnerable and that my bf might not like me anymore..Ive been diagnosed with BPD and have done some reading on what its like to have BPD and be in a relationship. I seem to have all the typical borderline traits when it comes to being in a relationship and feeling the way i do.. My question is how do i make the stress stop? I feel like he might just stop liking me one day and be done with me... i know youre not supposed to revolve your world around a bf or gf but in my case i cant seem to help it.. Im seeing a psych but not for another two weeks or so. I think im feeling this way because hes not telling me how much he likes me and stuff anymore, since were 2 months in were getting used to eachother now and i think he assumes i know how he feels.. when in reality* i have absolutely no f'ing idea.. and it terrifies me... If anyone can help with suggestions on how to go about this id really appreciate it.. Also, my bf doesnt know i have BPD. Someone please help me :(
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Re: Im afraid my BF doesnt like me anymore....?

Postby Chucky » Fri Jul 09, 2010 9:30 pm

Chantal, I know how difficult this is. What I believe could help you is recognising when it is the 'BPD' who is in the relationship, and when it is genuinely your normal self. When it is the BPD, then you should expect the feelings of being unloved, the anger, the stress, etc. If you know that these will come and go, then you should be better able to manage them. Once they go - and your normal self is back for a while - then you can really enjoy the relationship. Also, don't ever make any rash decisions when the BPD is at the forefront. If you're stressed and angry, then any decision you make would most likely be one you'd later regret. All of what I've said is based on the assumption that your feelings come and go, of course.

I have replied to a similar issue as yours in another thread just now, and have given the same advice.

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Re: Im afraid my BF doesnt like me anymore....?

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