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Im confused... about... me?

Postby siegheil » Thu Dec 10, 2009 1:30 am

Hello everyone. I had a couple of questions which may involve me telling me a little about myself, sorry for taking so long.
Ill get to the point and give you my questions

1) I like a girl. I am not sure of it, but I think she likes me to. Last year I was walking by myself to the next class, and then out of nowhere a girl on purpose, bumps into me. I know it was on purpose because, she walked faster then me, bumped right into me, walked on forward past me, looked back and continued walking. Now, is this some kind of body language?

2) Now, today, the same girl, me and my friend kind of followed her home. I mean, not like stalking, my friend lived in the same apartments as her and I went to his house with him, while we were walking we walked behind the girl. Now, as we are leaving school me and a friend are heading in a direction, and she and a friend of hers is walking in the opposite direction. About a minute into us walking by each other, me and my friend look back to find that she and her friend are looking back at us. Then, my friend says, lets go follow her, she looks to be heading where I live. I nod my head and off we are walking to his apartment. Lo and behold, she lives in the same apartment complex, this results in my friend saying "dude, lets follow her" I simply go along and once again, before she turns in to head down the hallway to her apartment complex, she once again looks back to find me and my friend once again looking at her. And now, on her myspace, she has put this as her new status and mood "ughhh i dont wanna fall for him ! at school next to mima:)" And, every time im walking in the hallway and when I look at her and she sees me, she always kind of stares at me and me looking at her back, but ends up with me turning my head away.

So, my question is, do you think we like each other? I have a couple of problems with myself though, for instance, i get jealous very easily. And, I just don't know how to keep a relationship going because I have never been in a long term one. And whats the point of even getting into a relationship if its not long term and we break up and then its really awkward and weird seeing each other. Plus, its bound to fail, this girl likes to party and drink, hang out and is very very popular, hell she is in a model magazine for Christs sake! Me, a kid that wears skateboard shirts from Pac-Sun with no real talents. I don't hang out with a lot of kids and I definitely don't like partying. I am somewhat depressed, loner-ish while she is like the sun happy, bright and always talking to many friends.

3) A friend of mines said that she was flirting with him, saying he had nice eyebrows (My friend gets his eyebrows done in a style like thing) Does this mean she is flirting with him and other guys?, or was that just a nice compliment (The eyebrows really are kind of strange, I have never seen any like that) Or does that simply go with her personality (Happy, fun, social)?

4) I have tried adding her on myspace and facebook. But, she does not add me. She did add my friend though. But, I do not have a picture of myself on myspace or my facebook. And my friend did. Do you think thats a possible reason why? I know her name but I dont know if she knows mine.
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Re: Im confused... about... me?

Postby Greatsharkbite » Thu Dec 10, 2009 1:02 pm

1) I like a girl. I am not sure of it, but I think she likes me to. Last year I was walking by myself to the next class, and then out of nowhere a girl on purpose, bumps into me. I know it was on purpose because, she walked faster then me, bumped right into me, walked on forward past me, looked back and continued walking. Now, is this some kind of body language?


I don't know, you see.. touching like that can be considered flirtation. But she didn't even apologize.. so she's bold enough to touch but not bold enough to say anything? Don't get me wrong anything is possible, this just makes it more unlikely.

Also staring isn't always flirtation, do girls stare just like guys? Yep. But a more sure sign would have been if she was talking to you and staring in the middle of a conversation, smiled at you, pointed her feet at you from across a room.. etc. Are the things you're saying possible signs?? Yeah, but they're also VERY possibly coincidences.

About keeping a relationship going.. Keeping a 1st relationship.. is.. VERY difficult. Its not magic, love literally means keeping someone with their good points, but also their quirks, faults, flaws. Here's what i'd be more worried about, you haven't discussed a single time this girl and you have had a conversation or small talk of any kind. You may have 0% in common. I know kids these days like to use myspace...facebook, twitter.. or whatever, but nothing replaces talking.

Last thing.. if you want to test the theory she didn't add you to facebook because of the no picture thing, put a picture up. Simple, easy and effective.

For the record tho, it doesn't sound like you have anything to go on. When people look at me, I SOMETIMES wonder if they like me, are talking about me, recognize me, or just plain wonder what they're looking at. Staring doesn't normally maintain anything by itself, eye contact for long periods of time on the other hand--can.
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Re: Im confused... about... me?

Postby Black Dove » Thu Dec 10, 2009 6:43 pm

siegheil wrote:And whats the point of even getting into a relationship if its not long term


This doesn't make sense. You never know how long a relationship is going to last. Unless maybe you bribe the person into staying with you for a certain amount of time.

You two don't sound compatible - forget about her.

A friend of mines said that she was flirting with him, saying he had nice eyebrows (My friend gets his eyebrows done in a style like thing) Does this mean she is flirting with him and other guys?


It means she has bad taste.
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