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Would you have a relationship with a pornstar?

Postby Leviathan » Sun Sep 27, 2009 4:54 pm

I ask out of boredom.

Let's say you meet someone who you find attractive, they have a great personality, tick all the boxes etc...

However, they drop a bombshell by announcing they work in the porn industry. Could you still be with that person? Men and women this applies to.

Me personally, I'd have no problem with it. I just see it as a job they do.
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Re: Would you have a relationship with a pornstar?

Postby Incorrigible » Sun Sep 27, 2009 8:57 pm

In a heartbeat.
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Re: Would you have a relationship with a pornstar?

Postby vanity » Mon Sep 28, 2009 2:21 am

Not with my standards.
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Re: Would you have a relationship with a pornstar?

Postby candymonkeybastard » Thu Oct 01, 2009 6:14 pm

Not a chance. If it's someone who'd been in amateur porn, or had even been a professional in the past, then absolutely, there's nothing wrong with that. But if they are actually still having sex with other people, even if it is just a job, then no. Not under any circumstances. It's not healthy, emotionally.
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Re: Would you have a relationship with a pornstar?

Postby sfguy » Fri Oct 02, 2009 12:42 am

morning star wrote:However, they drop a bombshell by announcing they work in the porn industry. Could you still be with that person? Men and women this applies to.

Yes, but only for a short while, just to see what tricks they had learned. I'd dump them before there was any chance of emotional attachment.
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Re: Would you have a relationship with a pornstar?

Postby hsieh » Fri Oct 02, 2009 5:15 pm

that depends. do they have herpes?

oh what the heck. yes.
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Re: Would you have a relationship with a pornstar?

Postby Incorrigible » Sat Oct 03, 2009 4:12 am

hsieh wrote:that depends. do they have herpes?

oh what the heck. yes.


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Re: Would you have a relationship with a pornstar?

Postby AoW » Sat Oct 03, 2009 7:40 am

No, I would not go beyond friendship.

I would always worry about diseases. It takes one person to make a mistake and it will distribute like fire through their group. I would also worry about drug abuse, which apparently is quite common within that industry.

Besides the above, you would have problems with feelings of inadequacy. You would wonder every time if she is really enjoying it, or just faking (you do realize that most porn-stars are masters of faking it?). In this case size matters.
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Re: Would you have a relationship with a pornstar?

Postby hsieh » Sat Oct 03, 2009 4:53 pm

size matters? wasn't it bill clinton who said "i don't have a small penis, jennifer flowers has a big mouth."?
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Re: Would you have a relationship with a pornstar?

Postby UK-SW » Mon Oct 05, 2009 8:39 pm

Guys are probably thinking "great, lots of anal", but do you come home and do what you've been doing all day at work? ;)
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