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Re: I hate how my family call me such alful names

Postby harryaxe » Mon Jun 01, 2009 4:48 pm

Hi,

No person needs to put up with verbal abuse. There is never any reason for it. Abuse is abuse.
Tell then STOP IT when they do it. Or say somthing like ' oh thats what you think'

You have the right to your own thoughts and feelings and you must do what you want to do in life.

If the abuse will not stop and they will not hear you, then you must get away from them.

Maybe a break will help you all? Maybe it wont. But you cant keep on letting them do this to your spirit.

Best of luck

;-)
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Re: I hate how my family call me such alful names

Postby nightmareb4christmas » Mon Jun 01, 2009 4:54 pm

I cry and tell them all the time how I hate it and it just makes them worse

then then imatate me crying or scream at me to shut the ###$ up and hit me or say oh shut up you sniverling cow or oh shut up you sniverling piece of $#%^
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Re: I hate how my family call me such alful names

Postby Butterfly Faerie » Mon Jun 01, 2009 5:20 pm

nightmareb4christmas wrote:I cry and tell them all the time how I hate it and it just makes them worse

then then imatate me crying or scream at me to shut the ###$ up and hit me or say oh shut up you sniverling cow or oh shut up you sniverling piece of $#%^



I'd leave, focus on money, and get out of there, I think you'd be better off outside of the home... and away from them.
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Re: I hate how my family call me such alful names

Postby nightmareb4christmas » Mon Jun 01, 2009 6:32 pm

Butterfly Faerie wrote:
nightmareb4christmas wrote:I cry and tell them all the time how I hate it and it just makes them worse

then then imatate me crying or scream at me to shut the ###$ up and hit me or say oh shut up you sniverling cow or oh shut up you sniverling piece of $#%^



I'd leave, focus on money, and get out of there, I think you'd be better off outside of the home... and away from them.

I know I'am saving my money at the moment and looking for another job to do as well as my mid-day assistent job. I also worry about moving out because I would be even more lonely then I'am now.
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Re: I hate how my family call me such alful names

Postby Butterfly Faerie » Mon Jun 01, 2009 7:28 pm

Good for you, continue doing that, you seem to have a plan in action, it'll work out just keep at it.
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Re: I hate how my family call me such alful names

Postby nightmareb4christmas » Mon Jun 01, 2009 7:36 pm

Butterfly Faerie wrote:Good for you, continue doing that, you seem to have a plan in action, it'll work out just keep at it.

thats what I intend to do. And thanks for saying that :)
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Re: I hate how my mum and dad say to me if you don't

Postby nightmareb4christmas » Mon Jun 01, 2009 7:51 pm

I just wish my parents were like all the other parents :cry:
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Re: I hate how my mum and dad say to me if you don't

Postby Butterfly Faerie » Mon Jun 01, 2009 7:53 pm

Just focus on what you're planning on doing now. Saving money, finding another job and moving out...
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Re: I hate how my mum and dad say to me if you don't

Postby nightmareb4christmas » Mon Jun 01, 2009 7:54 pm

Yes and I will keep on trying to get a boyfriend.

I will also look at things to join and everything.
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Re: I hate how my family tell me in a nasty way to get over the

Postby nightmareb4christmas » Mon Jun 01, 2009 7:58 pm

two_roads wrote:
nightmareb4christmas wrote:Im sorry it's just none of your advice helps


If none helps, why do you keep coming back asking for more?

and thats another question thats hard for me to answer. It may sound strange but I've always found it hard explaining stuff and getting my feelings out. But my medication is making it better.
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