Is it Obsessive Relational Progression?

Yes, it's good that you know, but now you have to take the next step and actually take action, right? This is sometimes the most difficult step, especially where it's an obsession that is in question. I mean, obsessions are - by their very definition - addictive. What do you intend to do?

Kevin

I don't have a plan yet.. I've signed up at "love addicts anonymous" and now reading what should I do. There is a "NO CONTACT" (NC) rule, and I have to come up with a NC plan and stick to it. I have about a week to do so (the person I am addicted to is travelling abroad, and when I know he is away, I feel fine and can function)... But I know the day he will be back my addiction/obsession will be back too.. it happened may times already.. sometimes I wish he took a one-way ticket to the Moon!.... And I can not share my problems at home.. I mean I can't tell my husband that I am a "love addict" and my addiction is not him...

P.S. Just read that most love addicts have some other "personality disorder", especially BPD.. So I read about BPD, and I feel I fit the profile (especially for tha past few months when I really started getting out of control..)

You're doing well, disturbia. You are actively trying to figure out what's been happening to you and, in truth, who exactly you are inside. once you get out of all of this, you will be more wise to the world and will know yourself much better than before. Through the love addicts anonymous programme/group, you will meet others who are in the exact same situation as yourself.