Married & Still long for my SoulMate!

Hi

I have been married for 10 years (2nd marriage) and I am desperately still searching for my soul mate! It is making my life so unmanagable to the point where my self esteem has hit an all time low!

Hopefully someone here can identify.

Regards,

Justme

Awwww.. I feel so sorry for you.. Im so sorry your having such a hard time, it must be sooo hard for you..Your husband/wife sure is a lucky guy/gal, with such a devoted better half.. Aaaand thats enough of my selfrightous holier then thou sarcasm..

What is a soul mate....... I find it hard enough to be friends with myself. A soul mate would be too much hard work for me. It would be too much pressure. A soul mate could cause you pain and you could be more miserable than you already are if something happened to them. What I am saying is that you are not missing out on much if that is all you have to worry about

Hmmm.... I guess this is the wrong site I'm on.

Tks for your advice.

Sorry if you took offence. Its nothing personal, I just call it like I see it. But hey, look on the bright side, I bet I didnt hurt you as bad as your wife/husband would be, when he/she finds out how you feel..

Your spouse doesn't have to be your soul mate.

A soul mate can be someone you learn the most from.

If you aren't in love with your husband anymore, do both of yourselves a favor and get a divorce.


But it sounds like to me you are chasing something that ISNT there. Nobody is perfect. Expectations are pre-meditated resentments. It would be a good idea for you to see a therapist and figure out why you have a repetition of this feeling in every marriage.

Best wishes!

Identity crisis. Another one. We have many in our life time.

Hope you will find yourself soon, for it is about you, not your soul mate.

yeah. jamilea is right.. life isn't a fairy-tale.. nobody's perfect.. if you keep your expectations up, you might fall from the height of your expectation and only hurt yourself.. it is a good idea to see a therapist.

goodluck!:)

Why are you still married then when you are looking for someone else? When you got married to your wife, didn't you think she's the one for you?

I don't wanna be harsh cause I don't know anything about you and your marriage.. but saying something like that sounds pretty dishonest to me

They say these online dating pages can find a true match for you nowadays, but i have no idea if that works. But you should definitely do sth about it if you're unhappy. Either be honest with yourself and your wife, get a divorce [like someone already said here] and look for someone who you need, OR realize that you might have been foolish wanting something you might never find... Can also be that you already have it.